The arguments are about why I don't go to the KH anymore/serve as an elder/So-and-so asked about you and I had to tell them...etc.
I went through a lot of that with my ex. She maintained that she had the RIGHT to be married to a JW, and implied that her RIGHT superceeded my right to freedom of religion. Now she's alone. Unless she's changed dramatically, she's probably friendless too. She's been friendless for most of her life because she can't control her mouth. Even though I was the "apostate", I heard that most JWs sided with me when I dumped her, saying no one else would have put up with her for so long.
I tried to coexist with her peacefully, even though we were little more than roommates for 11 years by the time I finally left. I didn't speak of our religious differences unless she started first. I even drove her to her meetings or field circus arrangements. But I refused to be treated like a second class citizen in my own home. In other words, I was not going to hide in the basement while she entertained her JW friends. If they were going to come into my house and eat my food, I'd be right there eating with them. Don't like it? There's the door. She should have been happy that I would even accept her "friends" considering she always treated my family and friends like shit.
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