BTW-Waiting before confessing can make all the difference. They even have policies laid out on that.
Isaac
well my wife met with the elders about our pre-marital activities.
i told her i wasn't interested in going and i really thought i would catch some flak from the gifts in men about it.
i was quite prepared to da if it came to it or just be straight up df'd.
BTW-Waiting before confessing can make all the difference. They even have policies laid out on that.
Isaac
would you or do you give your kids religious training?
is religious education something you would not now consider?.
Just as with anything else, I want her to understand it. She needs the kind of education WT professes to give with the Mankind's Search book. As far as belief goes I want her to have none until she is an adult. Hopefully she will abandon the hocus pocus and be spiritual and moral without having to need a religion per say. I want her to be comfortable with people of all religions, understand all.
Isaac
i was raised catholic.. the immaculate conception of christ defied all logic to me, even as a child.
it seems to me, christianity has borrowed something from the pagans.. .
i am reading god against the gods by johnathan kirsh~the history of the war between monotheism and polytheism.
Well you know, maybe it was frottage....
Isaac
i have been here over 2 years, some of you for many more.
i come and go with postings.
there are so many fighting history with current marriages to jw's, time put in as elders or what ever title you held.. some of us grew up in the worst possible time period,....description is not always possible here.. sometimes i feel we can;'t get beyond it.....we just keep talking about... is that bad or is that ok?.
Being a JW is a unique experience that changes you. Or if raised in it it forever sets your course in life. This isn't necessarily bad, but it is like was said here, an ex relationship. maybe one that you have a kid with. I know I've moved on, yet I know I will probably always be involved with the ex-JW community.
Isaac
i was 19, a pioneer, and a mini-serve.......first literature, then territory, and account servant at 21.....of course a janitor/window washer too (not that there is anything wrong with that!...it paid well!
).....i turned down elder as i am very non-judgemental....but almost did it so i could let everyone off in committees......geeze how i wish i had been in in college gettin laid............oompaundercover inspired this thread btw........
From 12 on I was did stuff like magazines, MS at 22, elder at 28, out at 39!
Isaac
i got this verified today.
seven congregations that were in my old circuits now are only three.. north and south gardner, ma were merged.. north and south claremont, nh were merged.. north adams, ma and bennington, vt were merged.. the wilmington, vt congregation was dissolved.. there has been discussion to merge the keene and swanzey, nh congregations, but there are some strong personalities among the two bodies of elders opposing that, so it is not likely to happen, though i hear that keene has got some big problems in its boe and very poor service, etc.. that's 9 congregations within about a 70 mile radius that are all seeing some serious trouble.. anyone hearing anything similar happening where they are?.
s4.
This has been happening in the NYC area for some years now. I haven't checked lately so it may have slowed down.
Isaac
happy square root day!
tuesday is square root day, a rare holiday that occurs when the day and the month are both the square root of the last two digits of the current year.
numerically, march 3, 2009, can be expressed as 3/3/09, or mathematically as 9 = 3, or 32 = 3 3 = 9.. .
Happy bday and happy square root day!
Isaac
i was given permission by a jw friend of my wife and me to post this experience.
she's anonymous and posts on the board.
she is married to a witness still but is fighting on behalf of children in her congregation to not be a next victim of a pedophile who attends her congregation.
So I wanted to post this thread to show how easily ANY JW switches from being a real or authentic, supportive person to a mind controlled non-supportive person making fake excuses in support of the WT society views ! And all it took was one catch phrase " not believing in God " to set the P.O. elder into cult protection overdrive !
Flipper, this about sums it up. And it speaks to why there is a problem with this religion.
Isaac
just saw the weather report showing a huge band of tornados moving through.
i think snowbird is right in the middle of it..
bttt
i was disappointed in this book, i kept reading it hoping it would get better.
i guess i got spoiled by this forum.
i have found better writings and stories here and a heck of a lot more humor.
I'm reading it now. Its actually fairly funny. Of course that's just me. What I do like about it is it accurately captures JW living without just being a boring biography. Someone who was looking to find out how JW's are raised and think about things might find this book useful. I'm about a third through it.
Isaac