Ok so everyone can hate me right about now but my experience is that i cheated on my husband, and there are always two sides to a story, he has all the sympathy from the witnesses and i am left out in the cold, what we are forgetting here is if a marriage is truly happy there would be little reason to stray, i'm not saying thats the case here but in my case i was miserable and my husband knew it and did absouletly nothing to rectify the situation because he was too busy being an elder, i feel as though i was pushed out of the marriage by his being busy with the truth, in my case the day i cheated on him i told him the marriage was over and ended it there because i knew that the trust was gone and that would be very hard to rebuild.
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Can marriage survive infidelity??
by butalbee inmy best friend, jamilynne, comes over this morning for coffee.
i haven't seen her in awhile, guess she had been busy........she's been really busy, i find out today!.
she tells me that she cheated on her husband, with a man she works with.
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Molestation News
by Mishnah inno, it's not about jws.
the catholics are still tops when it comes to this digusting practice.
by the way, about two years ago i was in a congregation where a molester, former elder, was publicly reproved and turned over to the police.
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chezza
I too agree the watchtower society needs to look at its stand here, this very thing happened in my family, my brother in law molested my niece and during the investigation it came out that others had it happen to them many years earlier in the congregation, but when the elders were approached by the family they denied having any knowledge of the abuse, had the elders been protecting the flock they would have made sure that the family of this peodophile knew about what he had done, i lost my marriage over this and so did my sister, how many more lives will be screwed because of the watchtowers protecting this animals.
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Jesus died on a stake or a cross?
by 2SYN inthis is something i've been puzzling over recently.
just for argument's sake, let's say that jesus did exist - was he murdered on a stake or on a cross?
this is puzzling me, because the only real research i've ever read on the subject was in wtbts publications, and since this is obviously a highly questionable source of documentation, i'd love it if someone here could point me to a scientific resource for finding out the truth about this...thx.... the earlier in the forenoon you take the sun bath, the greater will be the beneficial effect, because you get more of the ultra-violet rays, which are healing.
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Here is a link to an article i was reading about it myself, bearing in mind that it was pagans that crucified jesus and not jw's
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guilt of having to give evidence against family
by chezza inhi all, just wondering if anyone else like me had to give evidence in judical cases involving their family members and how they got over the guilt when they realised what they had done?
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chezza
thanks for your comments and i'm sorry for the pain you went through like me, all in the name of jehovah.
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Shunning Family Members
by chezza injust wondering if anyone has a similar experience like me, i had to shun certain family members because of their being disfellowshipped and we all know how hard it was, even though we thought we had gods blessing, when i myself was disfellowshipped for confessing my wrongdoing to the elders i felt like i was all alone with no-one to turn to, and interestingly the very family members i had shunned were the first to offer me help, i didnt approach them when i was d/f coz i felt guilty after shunning them but they got in contact with me and helped me through a really dificult emotional time, and the intersting thing here is that gods people are supposed to be forgiving as he is and yet they wouldnt forgive me but my family who were "no longer believers" did, anyone else have a similar story?
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chezza
thanks kep, i believe i know some of your family :)
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tubal ligations
by crittersitter inhello all...been lurking between puppy grooms...just had to post this one!.
my daughter and x-hubby (inactive jw for many years) went to dinner the other night at grannies( hard nosed jw) and was told that the wtbs says that jw's can no longer have tubal ligations.
the reasoning was it interferes with the "natural order" of things.
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chezza
Next thing the wtbts will be saying is you can only have sex for procreation
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guilt of having to give evidence against family
by chezza inhi all, just wondering if anyone else like me had to give evidence in judical cases involving their family members and how they got over the guilt when they realised what they had done?
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thx for your comment jst2laws, youre right my family member is better off.
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Wow I'm getting married
by lauralisa inhe asked me on friday night.
wow.
he's the man of my dreams, and i'm so happy i was able to meet him.
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chezza
I'm so happy for you, i'm waiting for my new man to propose to me too and your right it wouldnt have happened in the borg.
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tubal ligations
by crittersitter inhello all...been lurking between puppy grooms...just had to post this one!.
my daughter and x-hubby (inactive jw for many years) went to dinner the other night at grannies( hard nosed jw) and was told that the wtbs says that jw's can no longer have tubal ligations.
the reasoning was it interferes with the "natural order" of things.
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chezza
hi, i had my tubes done in 1992 and at that time my husband (ex now) was a ministerial servant and the elders told us that if he got a vasectomy done he could lose his privliges, so i had my tubes done instead, i did get a few comments from some sisters but i felt then and i do now that it is no different from taking the pill its jsut more permament.
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Shunning Family Members
by chezza injust wondering if anyone has a similar experience like me, i had to shun certain family members because of their being disfellowshipped and we all know how hard it was, even though we thought we had gods blessing, when i myself was disfellowshipped for confessing my wrongdoing to the elders i felt like i was all alone with no-one to turn to, and interestingly the very family members i had shunned were the first to offer me help, i didnt approach them when i was d/f coz i felt guilty after shunning them but they got in contact with me and helped me through a really dificult emotional time, and the intersting thing here is that gods people are supposed to be forgiving as he is and yet they wouldnt forgive me but my family who were "no longer believers" did, anyone else have a similar story?
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Just wondering if anyone has a similar experience like me, i had to shun certain family members because of their being disfellowshipped and we all know how hard it was, even though we thought we had gods blessing, when i myself was disfellowshipped for confessing my wrongdoing to the elders i felt like i was all alone with no-one to turn to, and interestingly the very family members i had shunned were the first to offer me help, i didnt approach them when i was d/f coz i felt guilty after shunning them but they got in contact with me and helped me through a really dificult emotional time, and the intersting thing here is that gods people are supposed to be forgiving as he is and yet they wouldnt forgive me but my family who were "no longer believers" did, anyone else have a similar story?