jstalin, I can't tell if you are happy or unhappy about what Shining One said?
Joe - I wasn't happy. He implies that it is a choice and/or some changable personality characteristic. He doesn't seem to understand that for us gay folks, attraction to the same sex is an inherent as attraction to the opposite sex is for straight folks. I've always looks at the guys, for as long as I can remember, and I've never had a real attraction to the female anatomy (as much as I tried to convince myself that I did). It just agitates me when folks like Shining One imply that their straightness is not a choice, but being gay somehow is. I don't know if it is genetic or environmental, but I do know that there's no question about who I'm attracted to, and there never really has been.