Well, he still hasn't told them... and I gave him to the end of the year... so I guess I will be writing a letter and he won't like it at all... but I told him that is what I would do and I guess he didn't believe that I would do it... and I actually found my crucifix on Christmas day. I have been wearing it every day since... he finally realized it the other day and only because I was wearing a tank top... he noticed the chain and wanted to see what was on it... hahahahah that was fun... I wish I had seen the look on his face, but I was on the computer at the time. He didn't say that I couldn't wear it!!! he just said oh well... and he has not hid it on me when I take it off... so we will see... he seems as if he is accepting the fact, but then again he wanted to tell me some more about his beliefs... AND HE WANTS ME TO CONVERT!!! I will keep in touch...
Christina77
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Interfaith Relationship
by Christina77 ini am currently involved in a relationship for the last year and a half with a man that i found out about 2 months ago is a jehovahs witness (and i am catholic).
the only reason why i found this out, was that i was pushing the issue as to why his parents do not know that i exist.
this really irritated me since he has a very close relationship with his parents.
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Underwear...
by Serena inthis is the strangest thing that i have ever seen, and i have to ask cuz it's just sooooooo wacky, i'm just wondering what the hell it means: the jw guy that i have been seeing, well, he sometimes would wear two pairs of underwear?????
is this usual to witnesses, or is he just trying to protect his goodies?
or is he just a freak?????
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Or maybe his boys are just cold... or he gets them caught when he zips up.... but then again, some men have a little drip after they use the bathroom, and maybe he is trying to prevent this...
this guy just sounds weird to me... everything you add just sounds stranger and stranger... but then again those who live in glass houses should not throw stones...
but think wisely, and just think what might be next... I have never heard of anyone wearing 2 pairs of underwear... and the next thing might be off the wall... who knows
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open marriages, anyone have experience?
by Pierced Angel inwell, my husband found out about my affair (yes, i gave in to the temptation with the soccer player and while it was fantastic, it's over now) and it's been a devestating time, we almost got divorced, but we're working through it.
i knew telling friends and this board wasn't going to help me fight his romantic advances, but i tried.
it was a one time thing that would have continued, but i wasn't too careful about the clues (guilty conscience i think).
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Englishman... you are soooo right... my current boyfriend can't even think that I had ever been with anyone but him... it is just too much of a horrifying thought... and he could never deal with me doing anything with anyone but him for the rest of our lives together. I was a wild child before I met him and he did set me straight, as to the fact that I needed someone for more than a fling... and I mean I was really bad when I met him.. I didn't care who or what I did... I had 3 men in one week!!! and 2 of them were as a three some... that was interesting... but never again... I also did it to get back for what my ex did to me... I used men as much as they used me!!! and I just wanted sex and nothing else. I only realized it until I found someone that actually loved me and not someone that just wanted a fing themselves. Now that I have settled down with one man... I could never imagine anyone else... I would be perfectly fine with only one man for the rest of my life... and he is sooo worth it... I never would cheat on my man, I have had it done to me and it totally changed me and made me sick. I would never have an open marriage, it just wouldn't suit me and I would feel very guilty. If I am bored with him, so be it... that is why we get married, for companionship and love and be together for the rest of our lives. I wouldn't give a committed relationship away any day for my sigle life again... that wasn't me, and I am glad that I didn't continue in that lifestyle.
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What is sexy to you?
by Tammie inwhen i read the "gossip" colums of the newspapers.
most of the time they are talking about famous people splitting up.
and who is the most elgible bachular, and so on.. so i pose a question to everyone that reads this.
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Someone that is sexy to me, is someone that will wrap their arms around me forever so that I can rest my head on their chest and hear their heart beat me to sleep and look at me the same as they did the day we found eachother and say "I love you". Also the look in their eyes when they don't care how you look when you wake up or at the end of a stressful day, just because they see you and care that you are home. And also a man that loves children... there is just something that makes me say "WOW" when a man is holding a child. And when he looks at them and smiles. Oh, it is so precious.
Christina
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Funny Christmas Gift Stories, please?
by Bendrr inok, who gives "joke gifts" for christmas?.
do you do the big box, little gift gag?
or wrap layer after layer of gift wrap on a present just for a laugh?.
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Girl Books:
A little Princess
The Secret Gardenand my all time favorite...
Are you there God it's me Margaret?
(Teenage Girl Problems)or you can go all out and get a book on the changing female... or The girls guide to good grooming or something... he he he
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ANYONE IN SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH JW
by Serena inhas anyone had any interfaith relationship with a jw that actually worked?
or are they all doomed from day one?
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Mike -
I will forward the e-mail that I sent to him of how I was fed up that led to my week of hell. I don't want distract anymore from what Serena is looking for. I don't want my problems to take over this post. ok
Christina
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ANYONE IN SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP WITH JW
by Serena inhas anyone had any interfaith relationship with a jw that actually worked?
or are they all doomed from day one?
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Well I did for a year and a half, up until I found out his beliefs. That was back in August, and it has been a big struggle ever since. He is famous for telling me how my beliefs are wrong and still hasn't introduced me to his parents. Currently I am his "dirty little secret" and will be until they know about me. The last week has been the worst, and we almost broke up the other day. His ultimate goal is for me to convert, which I refuse to. And then wanted to jump into bed... I would never convert to a religion that he can't keep it in his pants and tells me that I am wrong. It really seems to be a losing battle, to be in a successful relationship where both views are respected, and that is what it comes down to... does he respect YOU!!!
Christina
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Interfaith Relationship
by Christina77 ini am currently involved in a relationship for the last year and a half with a man that i found out about 2 months ago is a jehovahs witness (and i am catholic).
the only reason why i found this out, was that i was pushing the issue as to why his parents do not know that i exist.
this really irritated me since he has a very close relationship with his parents.
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Well I got to the point last night that I couldn't take it anymore. I just wrote him an e-mail dealing with respect for me. I don't know if this was a good idea, but I gave him an ultamatum... It just seemed as it is the only hope for me to know what I need to know from him and for him to finally introduce me to his parents... the last letter that I wrote to him didn't seem to do anything but get him a little teary eyed. Well, this one just shows him that I am not going to take his crap for any longer and face reality. Hopefully it will do some good, but who knows. I will keep you posted. Thanks for listening.
Christina
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Would you consider marrying outside your ... ?
by Celtic inrace, creed, religion or having a girl/boyfriend from same, what are your views?.
peace.
celtic
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Well, it really doesn't matter to me. My daughter is of half Puerto Rican and I am of Irish Decent. I was briefly engaged to her father, although we never married. I have dated men from many different cultures, but I do prefer them darker than me. I want my children to have a decent skin tone, since I am white, white, and more white!!! Currently, my boyfriend (who I do intend on marrying) is a JW and I am Catholic. I was brought up in a house where my mother was Catholic, and my father was Methodist... So different religions don't bother me. I will NEVER have a relationship with another women, it just doesn't appeal to me. I want what I don't have, and only a man can provide that for me! That is the only thing that I draw the line with. I am happy for anyone that is in a happy relationship, no matter what they prefer, as long as they are faithful to eachother, I accept everyone for who they are, and don't question any of their feelings.
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Interfaith Relationship
by Christina77 ini am currently involved in a relationship for the last year and a half with a man that i found out about 2 months ago is a jehovahs witness (and i am catholic).
the only reason why i found this out, was that i was pushing the issue as to why his parents do not know that i exist.
this really irritated me since he has a very close relationship with his parents.
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Well, his parents have been away for the past week visiting relatives, and guess who hasn't been attending meetings??? So it seems to me that it is them that are controling this part of him. When they are out of the picture he does what he wants to. It was interesting to see him react like this.