I hated it. I went to the spanish congregation and I always wondered if it was as bad in the english. I was stupid enough to go along with it in my first marriage and needless to say I am now divorced, I am such and independent person and can't even fathom the thought of being such a push over. My ex would come home late or not at all and I would just go along with it, he would say he was at work and I would call and he wasn't but I never quesioned him... I wonder now what I was thinking,because that would never fly now and I wasn't the type that would let it go then and the only conclusion that I have is that that is how they wanted it to be to set it up where MEN like elders could get away with S*&t by simply teaching the headship way, and it works they have manipulated many women to go with it. SAD!!!!!
As a side note first husband was an MS and was cheating on me! Now happily married and it's 50/50 on all decisions!