What's the problem with consulting a doctor?
COMF
hi i'm kinda embarrassed to ask you this, but you people seem like an okay gang... i have a very low sex drive, and i don't know what to do about it.
i love my bf, and i find him really attractive and all, but lately (2 months) it's been getting really hard on us.
i just don't "feel" like having sex at all.. now i don't want to consult a doctor, and that's final.
What's the problem with consulting a doctor?
COMF
well, my husband found out about my affair (yes, i gave in to the temptation with the soccer player and while it was fantastic, it's over now) and it's been a devestating time, we almost got divorced, but we're working through it.
i knew telling friends and this board wasn't going to help me fight his romantic advances, but i tried.
it was a one time thing that would have continued, but i wasn't too careful about the clues (guilty conscience i think).
For those who still believe in the Bible, adultery is CLEARLY condemned.
Wull, there's y' problem, Vern.
COMF
here is an interesting article by a local columnist that underscores the invalidity of the christian religion as god's chosen one.
it also casts serious doubt on the bible as well as jesus' originality.
this is really nothing new to those of us who have researched it.. http://www.sun-herald.com/newsarchive2/122301/cl2.htm?date=122301&story=cl2.htm.
Here's a fairly modern-day slant on the same thought--a bit verbose, perhaps, but enjoyable in the telling.
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- http://www.scarletmoon.com/fred/sounds/mp3s/The_Balance.mp3
After he had journeyed,
And his feet were sore
And he was tired,
He came upon an orange grove,
And he rested.
And he lay in the cool.
And while he rested
He took to himself an orange
And tasted it;
And it was good.
And he felt the earth to his spine.
And he asked.
And he saw the tree above him,
And the stars,
And the veins in the leaf,
And the light,
And the balance;
And he saw magnificent perfection.
Whereon, he thought of himself in balance,
And he knew he was.
And he thought of those he angered;
For he was not a violent man.
And he thought of those he hurt;
For he was not a cruel man.
And he thought of those he frightened;
For he was not an evil man.
And he understood.
He understood himself.
Upon this he saw that,
When he was of anger,
Or knew hurt,
Or felt fear,
It was because he was not understanding!
And he learned Compassion.
And with his eye of compassion
He saw his enemies
Like unto himself.
And he learned Love.
And then... he was answered.
"The Balance"
Graeme Edge
here is an interesting article by a local columnist that underscores the invalidity of the christian religion as god's chosen one.
it also casts serious doubt on the bible as well as jesus' originality.
this is really nothing new to those of us who have researched it.. http://www.sun-herald.com/newsarchive2/122301/cl2.htm?date=122301&story=cl2.htm.
our own magicians have been doing that stuff for years.
Had they been?
this post wont resonate so much with antipodean friends but for us in the northern hemisphere yesterday was the shortest day.
i find a difference in my mood and feelings at this time of year.
i have a distinct sense of foreboding when the clocks are set back in october.
Good thoughts well expressed, Thirdson! All the best to you and your loved ones.
COMF
i have just finished what seems like the week from hell.
at work we have been overwhelmed trying to make sure all the people in the area get xmas assistance.
we have people trying to get through the system twice.
Unstable condition,
A symptom of life,
Of mental and environmental change.
Atmosphereic disturbance,
The feverish flux
Of human interface and interchange.
The impulse is pure;
Sometimes our circuits get shorted
By external interference.
Signals get crossed
And the balance distorted
By internal incoherence.
A tired mind become a shape shifter,
Everybody need a mood lifter,
Everybody need reverse polarity.
Everybody got mixed feelings
About the function and the form.
Everybody got to deviate from the norm.
A tired mind become a shape shifter,
Everybody need a soft filter,
Everybody need reverse polarity.
Everybody got mixed feelings
About the function and the form.
Everybody got to elevate from the norm...
"Vital Signs" - Rush
i have read on their website that then are a noncreed religion, and welcome all sorts of views and that they encourage their members to be active in community and charities, etc,.
what do you guys know about this church?
i was thinking about checking one of the churches out around here.
Sort of speaks for itself doesn't it?
Why don't you step back and be quiet, and let's see if it does.
letting total atheists head the UUA congregations
No more of those partial atheists, eh?
COMF
well, my husband found out about my affair (yes, i gave in to the temptation with the soccer player and while it was fantastic, it's over now) and it's been a devestating time, we almost got divorced, but we're working through it.
i knew telling friends and this board wasn't going to help me fight his romantic advances, but i tried.
it was a one time thing that would have continued, but i wasn't too careful about the clues (guilty conscience i think).
One word: Adultery. Better think twice.
One word: huh?
COMF
check out this news story: http://web.star-telegram.com/content/fortworth/2001/12/21/foreign/fw030707-1221-xa036-terror.htm.
many question jehovah on what will happen with the children during armageddon.
i don't know that answer entirely so i'll wait and see what happens.
what will happen to the children if Jehovah does not intervene soon?
What has happened to them so far because of his lack of intervention?
I don't want innocent children dying, just because their parents are stubborn and don't want to serve Jehovah.
So you're saying God let this happen to this boy because the parent didn't serve Jehovah?
As Witnesses we are unclear on that point
As witnesses, you're unclear on all points.
COMF
some jw's are preaching in my apartment complex right now...and it's so peaceful, quiet.......what i wouldn't give for an air horn right now.....{heh, heh}.
ashi
my thigh-highs with the bows and babydoll nightie
We're going to need a jpg for that, please ma'am. :)
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