mouthy, I know what you mean... forgiving is not the problem I have, but it seems suspicious to me that he keeps seeing her and talking with her if he really never wanted to have anything to do with her. Very weird. I'm sorry that I'm not replying to each post individually... but keep them coming, if you want. I am reading them all and I appreciate everything that all of you have to say. I value all of your opinions and this is helping me a lot.
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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?
by kristyann inhey everyone!
i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!
i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.
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Is it just me and my computer? Cause I don't see anything.
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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?
by kristyann inhey everyone!
i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!
i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.
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MeneMene, no, he is not a JW or an ex-JW. I never even thought about the thing with the possibility that her kids could be his! I kind of doubt it, but the thought never even crossed my mind before. It definitely freaks me out to think of that.
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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?
by kristyann inhey everyone!
i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!
i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.
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Chris (BT)... I definitely apologize if anything I said sounded offensive to you... but I most certainly did NOT mean a victim of incest or molestation. My boyfriend and his cousin, from how he tells it, were willing adult participants. I do not mean "would you date a VICTIM of incest?" because that is most certainly not one's fault. I apologize if it sounded that way, but my boyfriend and his cousin, both adults, just decided to have sex. From what I can tell, there wasn't a victim or perpetrator. He claims he was manipulated into it, but I have my doubts about that.
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My congo is being DELETED next month!
by MinisterAmos inoh noez how will we survive?!?!.
more details later, but it's a case of a congo that split not growing and the congo it split from losing 50% of its publishers in two years.. i'm tickled pink!.
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Is that really the terminology that they use? "Deleted?" I hadn't heard that one before.
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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?
by kristyann inhey everyone!
i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!
i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.
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Thewanderer, yeah, it's definitely his first cousin. JeffT, okay, I look forward to your response. Becca, he claims that this IS the dark secret, but I wonder if he was just, as some have said, "testing the waters" to see how I would respond to this, and then maybe there will be something more (and worse) in the future? JWdaughter, I know what you mean about the baggage... he's 10 years older and has lots more than me, plus this whole not-normal cousin thing... and I don't want it to become MY baggage! I'm young and want to have a good time and be worry-free while I can...
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Back after 3 months
by greendawn inhi and wishing you all a happy new year though somewhat belatedly.
i am glad to be back after 3 months, i had no internet connection for most of that time, but as from yesterday i have one at home, and i see that most of the familiar names, as well as some new ones, are still posting here.
all is going well there is a lot of work, i acquired a powerful network of friends, lost a lot of weight since last june 20kg (44lb) to be exact, and i moved into a new better home.
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Welcome back, greendawn! I guess we both arrived back at the same time.
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JW's are just like American Idol contestants
by moshe inthey think they are s-oo good- the worlds most perfect christian religion- all their friends tell them how right they are and how much talent they have.
wow- then one of our simon apostate types gets ahold of them out in service and tears them apart, they do the walk of shame as they leave your door.
exposed for the talentless fraud that they are..
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Ha ha, clever comparison! I like it. Yeah, you're right, the American Idol contestants usually STILL won't acknowledge that they're bad... they walk out swearing and angry with Simon. Maybe they might even know it deep down, but they have to put up a front and trick themselves so that reality doesn't hurt so much. Just like with the JWs.
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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?
by kristyann inhey everyone!
i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!
i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.
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Gregor, yeah, that's me in my avatar, thanks. :-) Most days I think I'm attractive, but sometimes I feel insecure and perhaps that causes me to lower my standards. I know, he sorta is "Mr. Strange." I didn't see it before, but now that this has come out. I feel like it's my fault, like I should have known something was up with him, but really, this was a shock to me that came out of nowhere. Do you really think that he may have raped or molested someone in his past? The thought did cross my mind since he told me that... he kept saying "I have huge dark secrets" and "I have committed the worst sin possible." Could he really just mean incest by that, or is he trying to, like you said, soften me up and see how I react before he tells me the really big one?
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Would you date someone with a history of INCEST?
by kristyann inhey everyone!
i hope that at least someone missed me or noticed that i was gone!
i have been so busy, and i don't think that i've really been on here since june.
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Tall penguin, it's both. The fact that it's his cousin makes it so, so much worse. But the double standard also drives me nuts. Why is it that I cannot even so much as say hello if I pay an ex-boyfriend on the street, but he can chat it up or hang out with someone he was intimate with? And the fact that it's his cousin... that much sicker and harder to deal with!