@ Gill, did you experience keeping your 3 kids in line by yourself during the meetings as a burden?
Did you wish your husband were there to support you?
Did any of the cong help you?
I think you now could perfectly see through the shallowness of their 'love'. I suppose you would have had a different opinion if your cong were a real nice place to go to, were all members talk to each other and help out.
In my case my wife has to keep those 2 little rascals of mine in line without me. Oftentimes, she comes home with stories about the way my son behaved. But she also relates about the help she gets. And I agree with her, it is a lovely cong. Probably the best I´ve seen in 40 years.
So, in her case, she will not see the light through lack of love. She sometimes complains about my facial expression during sunday meetings when she sees me disagreeing with some utter BS in the WT, and she complains it sticks with her and she does not like it. "mistakes" alibi bigtime. It´s still J-sOrg, she insists on that. However, at closer examination she found out that the two of us do not feel so much different about a great deal of things. It´s just she does not consider them to be dealbreakers. But I know there are and at this point in time I do not see them fulfilled.
@Truthseeker: What makes you so sure she will turn you in? Did she explicitly say that?
Cheers
Borgia