Lets see.... Where do I begin? It seems as if I was always receiving 'loving' counsel for something.
I was counselled for having worldly friends, so I started a bible study with a local marajuana dealer in high school. He didn't study for real, but attended the occasional meeting so we could keep our friendship.
I was counselled for playing dungeons and dragons. My mother actually called an elder to our house and asked him to bring all reference material he had on the subject. I learned alot from that meeting - like how to hide my things so mom don't find them.
I was counselled for my hair being too long, it was just touching the collar of my shirt. So I got it cut, a short buzz job, but not bald headed - at the very next meeting I was counselled that it was too short.
My entire family was counselled about our appearance. We were so poor that sometimes we couln't afford to eat, but the elders had to gall to tell us 'good christians will find the means to make themselves presentable'. I'm not talking about coming to the hall in torn clothes with patches or anything, it just wasn't as fasionable or up to date as the rest of the congregation in their 1970's polyester.
I am amazed we stayed as long as we did.
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