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Our First Apostafest!
by onesong in
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yes we did it last night!

my lady and i had about a dozen former ex-dubs over last night and it was great.

one girl i hadn't seen in 12 years, .
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Our first Apostafest!
by onesong in
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Awesome Movie
by onesong in
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maybe it's already been talked about here but has anybody seen: what the(bleep) do we know?.

i just got done watching it.

after studying quantum physics for the past few months and the link to spirituality this movie is great!.
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Defd, You can't be serious
by onesong in
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2. friends
who is this defd guy?

he keeps insisting that my being df'd is a good thing.

understand this--i don"t believe that s@#t anymore!
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Having a hard time tonight
by onesong in
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2. friends
it's been 2 months since i was df'd and 4 months since i've talked to anyone in my family.

for the most part i'm doing real well but every now and then it catches up with me.

ran into my dad today and when i tried to say hi he could only ignore me.. i think the pain and hurt i feel now is more for him, he's in his own world of misery and doesn't even know it.. anyway, i'm a little drunk and depressed and just felt like getting it off my chest.. hope this doesn't bring anyone else down.. namaste'
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Higher Education Story
by onesong in
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2. friends
here's a sad story of what happens when we take man's advice on the education issue.

my ex-wife ( we went thru a very amiable divorce after 13 yrs.

and leaving the borg) is(was) a third generation jw.
Higher Education Story
by onesong in
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2. friends
here's a sad story of my ex-wife (we had an amiable divorce within the last year after leaving the borg) and her parents and grandparents ( who were both of the annointed-whatever that means.).

my ex's parents followed the advice and lived like the big "a" was coming tomorrow.

no education , no savings , no future planning.
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I was stalked...
by onesong in
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2. friends
after making it clear to everyone that i no longer wanted anything to do with the borg (i haven't been to a meeting in 9 months) .

i moved across town and told no one , not even my family.

within 3 weeks i saw a van slowly driving by with elders in it scoping out my car.
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Thank you everyone for the warm welcome
by onesong in
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2. friends
to answer a few ?'s.

yes i have trivialized a lot, but i'm healing so well.

i was just waiting to explode with exploration of all types of spiritualty that secretly fascinated me.i know i was df'd, i was just surprised i didn't get a chance to appeal, i had a great letter waiting.
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1st post from a former S.O!
by onesong in
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2. friends
i'm 36 yrs.

old and was a jw for 35.i did everything from pioneer to bethel to ms to elder, school overseer ect.

, ect.