On 1 Jan 2014, wafflesandpancakes wrote:
trying to convince my wife not to confess...
"trying to convince my wife not to confess... during our engagement, we fooled around and touch each other down there. It's not a "tap" but definitely is not "stimulation". I tried to convince my wife, who, after 5 years of marriage, strangely felt guilty all the sudden, that its not do called porneia. Well i am fading and shes still in, so thats probably why i'm not guilt ridden."
But, on 15 Aug 2013, wafflesandpancakes wrote:
Premarital sex--how prevalent?
"in my old congregation, everyone seems clean. mostly chaste courtship, kingdom hall wedding, blah blah.
well there are lots of cases of fondling but they were soon forgotton. when my husband and i confessed to sex before marriage, the elders were disgusted. a year later tho, another couple fessed up."
Which is it, wafflesandpancakes?