I think although most of us have had bad expieriences with the Watchtower, we need to remember the good things it gave us as well.
I know I grew in confidence by enrolling in the Ministry School and going door to door. Also I had a great social life, always having someone to go around with or to have round socially.
Having said that I gave it all up when I realized how they had been deciving me for the last 20 years or so.
I am very glad I am out of it, having the freedom now to use my own brain to work things out rather than rely on the Watchtower.