Glad you feel the way you do about gay and lesion fellow humans. That is good. But the bible does not feel that way I'm afraid. The bible contradicts itself to no end so just about anyone can find any justification for anything in it.
The bible is like a prisoner, the more you torture it, it's going to tell you what you want to hear. The end. Lott was righteous so someone could justify knocking up their daughters.
Besides this issues of what people do in their bedrooms is better summed up in the freemindfade bible. It's a little cras but gets the point across.
FMF 6:9 "what you eat don't make me s%$t and who you f $%k don't make me c%m."