Posts by BizzyBee

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Dead pregnant woman forced to stay on life support, due to TX State law

by adamah in

there's an interesting medicolegal issue arising out of tx, a pregnant women who suffered a pulmonary embolism in november and died (when she was 14 weeks pregnant).. however, the body has been kept on life-support all this time (against her and her husband's wishes), due to an ambiguous tx state law (tex hs.

code ann.

166.049) which actually blocks the ability of the patient and family to decide:.

BizzyBee

In this country, there is a commonly used saying - after hearing of some entirely crazy, wild, too-unbelievable-to-be-true situation, event, or act... "That is so Texas!"

For sheer crazy, Texas has only one close contender - your move, Florida.

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Just become a window washer..............ya that.

by ctrwtf in

jw
friends

i"m normally the kind of guy that likes to count his blessings.

i've got two great kids.

and a super wife who loves me despite myself.

BizzyBee

Your real question is - "How do I deal with the resentment I feel toward my parents?"

Some find it helpful to write it all down in a letter to the offending party (even if that party is no longer alive). Explain to your parent's how their belief system was imposed upon you and has materially affected your life in a negative way, that you were denied the educational opportunities that they themselves enjoyed. Include the things that you personally would have done differently had you not been hamstrung by the WTS. And try to say a few words about how you forgive them - they were misled also.

This will help with the resentment part of your dilemma.

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Do you feel guilty?

by Justmenthedogs in

jw
friends

so while i was out hiking with the dogs today i got to thinking about this forum and was wondering how many of you still feel guilty from time to time for leaving?

i do, i miss my family at times but then i think about the life that i have created and i have a good one, i have good friends and i am happy, happier then i ever was as a jw.

i was just wondering if others feel the same way sometimes..

BizzyBee

JMNTD,

Guilt is a WTS tool that they wield in so many ways. You are a sensitive, caring person and that is just the typle of individual that they prey upon most effectively. Against all common wisdom, this is the one time to put yourself first - kind of like the airline advice to put your breathing device on before you try to help anyone else.

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And now Joseph speaks

by donny in

well after the international bible student founder charles russell came to me in a dream a few days ago and gave his opinion on the current state of the watchtower society, his views evidently found their way to his successor, joseph franklin rutherford a.k.a the judge.

not to be outdone by his predecessor, he decided to invade my dreamland last night.. .

i was enjoying a view of mt.

BizzyBee

Bravo!

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Worst yb experience I have ever heard heartwrenching

by Skinnedsheep in

jw
friends

he sold his bicycle.

malachi, an elder who lives in burundi, earned his living by farming and by transporting loads on his bicycle.

in order to support their kingdom hall construction project, malachi decided to be at the construction site every day.

BizzyBee

Malachi sounds like an irresponsible moron.

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New Year Resolution: A new recipe every week

by Simon in

jw
friends

we decided we don't cook enough and are pretty bored of what we usually eat (whether home-made or eating out).. so .... our new years resolution for 2014 is to try a new recipe every week.. so far we've done some jamie olivers roasted vegetables and right now we're making cornish-like pasties.

apparently, people are very militant about exactly what a cornish pastie is so our's are cornish-like because dammit, we wanted peas and carrots and whatever seasoning we wanted to stick in there too!.

smells delicious and can't wait to eat them.. i also invented a new dish using a leftover half-tin of garden peas and a slice of bread.

BizzyBee

garden peas and a slice of bread. I call it a pea sandwich.

You'll be wanting to get that patented.

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After 44 years I finally found and spoke to my old prison buddy!

by Terry in

i have had very few mentors in my life.

i love each of them dearly.. one such was a man a bit older than me named tollie padget.. .

tollie was the rarest of rare birds.

BizzyBee

Terry, I too, communicated with an old JW friend in the past year. I really thought that after nearly 50 years (!) surely some lighbulb had gone on. Her hubby was an educated non-JW and she had 4 children and they enjoyed a privileged lifestyle. She enjoyed material advantages but I thought surely the odds favored some change in her circumstances and therefore enlightenment on her part.

A very nice e-mail from her disabused me of my wishful thinking - she and her hubby and children (save one) and grandchildren are dedicated witlesses. I haven't had the heart to answer her and it has been 6-8 months now.

It makes me kind of sick.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GEStsLJZhzo

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