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  Super_becka, where are you?

  by daystar in

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  march 9 was her last post.

  any ideas?

  lola?

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  jojochan

  I know...I miss my friend too. But I know that she's doing fine and well....and very, very busy!

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  Do you think you are normal?

  by jwfacts in

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  i always felt unique from everyone else.

  being a jw i never quite felt like i was from the same planet as all the other school children.

  as a jw i fit in, but still not quite, as i was a bit too indepentdant a thinker.

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  jojochan

  No. But in the times that we are living in...what IS normal?And since I was in the borg I've always felt out of place. That something was wrong. Now, I still feel like that. Crazy huh? jojochan.
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  I found this VERY offensive. What about you?

  by Gill in

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  watchtower, may 15th 2006.

  (back page).

  the value of 'a weaker vessel'.

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  jojochan

  Please explain to me how this differs from the way a wife is supposed to treat her husband?!?!?

  ....simple. Be in subjection, do as you are told. Render your due.

  Remember those kind of talks?

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  "Baby, I think its time we move in 2gethor" HELP!!!!!

  by stillAwitness in

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  my boyfriend and i are gettin pretty serious.

  before we met he was never in a committed relationship and believed marriage was just a piece of paper that helped during tax season.

  then he meets me and suddenly i catch him online looking at rings.

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  jojochan

  I know, none offense taken. I know that I find myself drawn hopelessly to scorpios, my ex wife is an aquarius.

  funny huh?

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  Does this make you want to scream?!

  by Gill in

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  may 2006, awake, page 30:.

  from our readers.

  how to find a job and keep it .

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  jojochan

  It is menial work, but I'm making an effort to be satisfied with it. At least I'm not mentally exhausted when I come home, and I can concentrate on my personal study of the Bible.

  O rly? XD!!!

  Give me a break, noticed how that person mentioned that even though it's menial, they don't like it, but they'll grin and bear it. I don't miss that dogma not one BIT!

  !!

  jojochan.
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  Just finished Crisis of Conscience (first time), now I understand why...

  by AuldSoul in

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  i have just completed crisis of conscience.

  now i understand why my father, the co, the wts and every other elder who came to my home asked if i had read the book.. i had not.

  however, the argumentation stylesup to and including the focus in my letters on the paired issues of candor and humilityas well as the bulk of the scriptures used by brother franz and others were present in my letters.. this shows their hubris to an even greater degree.

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  "You men provided the research tools necessary to obtain a side-by-side comparison of your dogma through the years. Your double-speak is openly available to any who wish to research it.

  EXACTLY! which was the point that I was trying to convey when I was on the way out. If only they smelled what they were shoveling.

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  "Baby, I think its time we move in 2gethor" HELP!!!!!

  by stillAwitness in

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  my boyfriend and i are gettin pretty serious.

  before we met he was never in a committed relationship and believed marriage was just a piece of paper that helped during tax season.

  then he meets me and suddenly i catch him online looking at rings.

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  jojochan

  LOL, yeah, anewme, WE virgos can be a handfulXD

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  "Baby, I think its time we move in 2gethor" HELP!!!!!

  by stillAwitness in

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  my boyfriend and i are gettin pretty serious.

  before we met he was never in a committed relationship and believed marriage was just a piece of paper that helped during tax season.

  then he meets me and suddenly i catch him online looking at rings.

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  jojochan

  He says he can't stay in a relationship with me if it is not going anywhere. It is very hard on him (not being able to meet the parents, me never being able to sleep over and what not) and I don't want him to slip away because of my own fear of failure.

  Think about that statement for a minute. And for you, you are in a situation that is deep as well, just being a witness while being unplugged from the collective is hard, and going to school and trying to juggle a relationship with someone on the outside as well? You need to seriously talk to him about your situation, and how it is for you. Even if he does'nt understand which in all 90% of the time they really don't, but at least you told him and emphasized that you love him and care for him as that man in your life, and you won't trade his love for anything. And if he really IS understanding, he'll embrace you and sees you as one worth waiting for. Which I think that you are.

  Communication is really important, don't allow yourself to be painted in to a corner.

  Many years ago I was...don't to what i did. Get your life together FIRST.

  Any thing else PM me.

  A friend,

  jojochan.
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  Something I Have To Tell The Board

  by ColdRedRain in

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  i got a phone call today from one of my former lovers.

  she told me that she was with a man that was close to death, because he caught hiv and he didn't tell her.

  anyways, i'm about to get tested tomorrow, april 1. pray that i test negative.

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  An "apostate" walks into a bar......................

  by ButtLight in

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  and recognizes an elder there.

  so he goes up to him and says................(keep the story going)

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  jojochan

  now we're even.

  jojochan.