That person was obviously speaking for themself, and not for the majority of the board. I can't believe someone would be so obnoxious as to call you, Hambeak, and be rude and mean. They certainly do not speak for me! You seem like a real nice guy. I'm sorry this happened to you.
Virgochik
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Gays Leave JWD!
by hambeak ini got a phone call from a person that i gave my phone # to.
and this person said that gays are not welcome here and this is not what this board was really about.
i told them that this is only one part of the crap that the wts did to people and that we are people too.
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As a DUB, what did you do and hid so as not to stumble anyone?
by megsmomma ini was thinking of all the "concious matters" that you could do if you wanted, but would not tell anyone so you wouldn't get in "trouble".
one thing that came to my mind is when after having my baby, i wanted to join weight watchers...there were two meeting places to choose from...one close to me and in a church....and one quite far not in a church.
well, i went to the one in the church, always worried someone would see me(but i didn't really think it was a big deal) so, what did you all hide?
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Virgochik
Oh, well then! Mom and I bought Harlequin paperbacks and hid them to read when Dad fell asleep, but I never did anything with an elder's wife! Haha.
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Anybody watch "Cops" tonight?
by frozen one ina segment videoed in las vegas showed an 18 year old getting arrested for prostitution.
the officer asked her why she was selling herself.
she explained that her parents kicked her out of their house when she was 16 and she got into hooking to survive.
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Virgochik
The segment about the eighteen year old girl coming from Treasure Island, right? I noticed the way she hesitated after the cop asked her if she'd dropped out of school, and why she was doing this type of work. She acted like she didn't want to say too much, very hesitant and guarded when she said the religion was so strict and she couldn't stand it any more. Just how a Dub kid acts when they're desperate to break free, but still afraid to "bring reproach on Jehoopla's name." Hubby and I looked at each other and wondered if she was a Kingdom Hell escapee, but what a life to escape to. Kind of like the proverbial frying pan, into the fire!
We'll never know which religion she meant, I guess.
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Are YOU Basically The Same Person Now As When You Were A Witness?
by minimus inthey say "the truth" changes people from nasty, wicked people to meek, honest hearted "ones".
now that you're out of "the truth", are you back to your old ways??
did "the truth" ever really change you??
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Virgochik
I was a born-in, but I've changed SO much since I became an adult and left....for the better! I was shy and timid as a Dub, never speaking up, and deferring to my Father, the "head of the family." Therefore, I learned late how to make decisions and to voice my opinions. It took awhile for my personality to emerge, because I always stayed in the background and didn't realize I had opinions!
Now, I'm assertive about my needs and opinions, and don't let anyone push me around. If I don't like something, or want to go somewhere, I can say so. I am physically much healthier, and mentally too! The only one I try to please, is my husband, and he's happy if I'm happy. No persnickety body of elders and all the snippy wives, and cliquish kids. Who needs it?
I am still compassionate, and honest, nd I think I'm a pretty decent, moral person. Yes, you can be all those things, and not attend the Kinkdumb Hall, who'd have thought?
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If you want a Christmas Card
by mouthy infrom me send me a address on my pm .
mother/granny/mouthy always send cards to her loved ones seems no one has started a christmas exchange gift this year & i am not going to start it either
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Virgochik
bttt...c'mon, it'll be fun!
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X-mas cards.....Hooray for Xmas cards
by lola28 inok, for any one that would like to be added to the xmas card list, please send me your info by tomorrow evening, for those of you that have already sent me your addy's a few of them got deleted from my inbox before i could save them ***weeps***, please if you sent me your info verify that i have it, i don't want anyone to feel left out, i am planning on having the list done by monday night.
i know for a fact that i do not have your info in my inbox noni, crazyblonddeb send your info again and to the lovely poster who offered to get stamps ( sorry i forgot your name) please send me your info again so i can add you to the list.. lola.
i'm really looking forward to this!.
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Virgochik
Lola, you have a PM. CBD, she called you a crudbum, and she referred to me as a lovely poster, see how smart she is? Teehee, all in good fun. Let the begin cards flying!
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I had the baby!
by unbeliever ini had the baby on 11/21/06.
we named him dylan rhys.
he's a cute little thing and such a good baby.
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Virgochik
Maybe there will be some pictures soon?
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If you want a Christmas Card
by mouthy infrom me send me a address on my pm .
mother/granny/mouthy always send cards to her loved ones seems no one has started a christmas exchange gift this year & i am not going to start it either
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Virgochik
bttt
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Talk about fishy!
by Sparkplug ini am trying to keep my diet healthy seeing i was in the hospital and had to eat light and also cleanse my system for that dang surgery.
so tonight, seeing i could get nobody to do anything more than just to drive me to the store, i decided to have fish.
so i made a salad from a cut mix of radishes and carrots, snap peas and green types.
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Virgochik
You will just feel better and better, with more energy than you had in a long time. It was the best thing I ever did! Without that monthly energy sap, you'll feel so good, and if you gradually add exercise every day, you won't put on weight. I did have a problem with tiring easily when I first went back to work. Don't go back too soon. I recommend the Hystersisters website, for good message boards and stories and advice. You're doing great!
Since you almost feel like you're starting a new life, it's a logical time to start eating healthier too. Good for you!
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If you want a Christmas Card
by mouthy infrom me send me a address on my pm .
mother/granny/mouthy always send cards to her loved ones seems no one has started a christmas exchange gift this year & i am not going to start it either
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Virgochik
I want to send out lots of cards, and would love to get some too! How do I get on the list? Any who want a card from me, please PM me with an address, or can we all get on an updated list? Is someone in charge of this?