((((Balsam)))). I'm so sorry. Isn't it so very strange, how life just goes on for them, and they don't see it is NOT normal, what happened? My Grandma died, too, from refusing blood. I can still see her in my mind's eye, lying ill in bed, and I was just five years old. I see now how un-natural it was, for a Grandma to see her little granddaughter begging her to get well, while knowing her course was leading to death. How could she do that to a child?
Wierd, wierd people! I wish you peace tonite. Thankfully you and your sons are out!