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  IS IT WRONG TO SAY SOMEONE ACTS WHITE?

  by nvrgnbk in

  1. jw
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  is it wrong to say someone acts white?

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  collegegirl21

  I know personally since I'm a little bit of everything that its difficult. My family is, as some people would call them "ghetto." As I was growing up, my parents didn't do drugs or weren't into that, they used their money so I could live on the nice side of town and when I would visit my family because I didn't talk like a "black" person, I was termed the white girl of the family. When I went to school and lived in the dorms and I first met people they couldn't believe my skin color because I talk like a "white person." I used to take offense to it, but now I understand that some people still believe there's a difference between people, but I dont see white or black... I just see a person.

  CG21 (aka the "white girl" of the family, lol)
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  Percentage of JW's that are undercover?

  by flipper in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  what do you think?

  it seems like a lot are there so they won't lose family and friends - are in good standing but don't actually believe.

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  collegegirl21

  I think there are a lot of members that aren't in because they believe its real. I think my dad is that way. He came to visit me and he went out with me and my worldly boyfriend to Famous Daves (restaurant) and sat at the bar and had a couple of drinks with us. I am still in, although I don't go to the meetings regularly because I live about an hour away. But I just thought that it was interesting because my dad would've never done that if my mother were there. So I am starting to think that he's only in because of her, but he won't admit it out loud.
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  Moving to Milwaukee area

  by collegegirl21 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi everyone, i will be making a change in my life and i am looking for people in the area.

  i am moving to the waukesha/brookfield area, which is close to milwaukee.

  i do not know a lot of people in the area, and i would like to make friends so i can have some things to do when i am not working.

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  Does anyone know the Ex-JW meetup site for Milwaukee?
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  Was It Easy For You To Leave "The Truth"?

  by minimus in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  was your life totally disrupted?

  did you lose a lot of family and friends?

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  collegegirl21

  It is really hard leaving. My parents have changed a lot this past year and they've been really nice and understanding. Its actually quite odd, so it will be a little harder leaving than before. I am ready to move on, I am not going to DA myself, I am just hoping to move away and come home when I need to.

  I don't really have many friends in the religion right now, so that won't be an issue. When I got reinstated, I made sure I kept a distance from everyone. But I can't imagine it being extremely easy for anyone leaving because most people who are in have families that they love and want to be around.
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  Moving to Milwaukee area

  by collegegirl21 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi everyone, i will be making a change in my life and i am looking for people in the area.

  i am moving to the waukesha/brookfield area, which is close to milwaukee.

  i do not know a lot of people in the area, and i would like to make friends so i can have some things to do when i am not working.

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  collegegirl21

  GG/BG - Please let me know! I would love to take/pay for some of your stuff. I need a couch and I think I got a bed, but I am not sure on everything else... please let me know!

  PS - Buttlight... I want to come and visit you guys within the next couple of weeks. I think a weekend out is well overdue, now that I am newly single :)
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  Moving to Milwaukee area

  by collegegirl21 in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  hi everyone, i will be making a change in my life and i am looking for people in the area.

  i am moving to the waukesha/brookfield area, which is close to milwaukee.

  i do not know a lot of people in the area, and i would like to make friends so i can have some things to do when i am not working.

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  collegegirl21

  Hi everyone, I will be making a change in my life and I am looking for people in the area. I am moving to the Waukesha/Brookfield area, which is close to Milwaukee. I do not know a lot of people in the area, and I would like to make friends so I can have some things to do when I am not working. Hopefully, if our application gets accepted (dont want to jinx it) for the apt, we will be moving next weekend. And I really would love to meet people in the area. This is going to be great starting over!

  Also if you know of any places where I can get some cheap living room furniture that would be great. My roommate and I have kitchen furniture and bedroom stuff and an entertainment center for our living room, but we don't have any couches or anything. Please let me know if you of any discount stores or anyone who has some decent furniture on sale. Thank you so much!!!!

  ~CG21
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  Got home from the meeting the other day and couldn't stop crying

  by JamieL in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i know everyone here thinks it's probably a waste of time for me to keep going to meetings cause i'm disfellowshipped.

  but i go for my own reasons, i explained these a while back when i first posted on here.

  he's a jw, but we are like brothers so he contacts me sometimes and it makes me feel a little better.

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  I am so sorry for that. That is not a good feeling to have and sometimes you just need to cry to let it all out. There's nothing wrong with that. We are here to listen! ((((hugs)))))
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  I think I am loosing my mind.

  by reneeisorym in

  1. jw
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  let me share yesterday with you all.

  yes, a monday.

  i think i was only operating with half of a box of french fries.

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  collegegirl21

  Lol.. I think that's cute... but you get to excuse all of that because it was Monday :).... You just had a case of the Mondays :)
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  GG/BG & OFG Sitting in a Tree.....

  by OpenFireGlass in

  1. social
  2. relationships

  where the hell have i been?

  ummmmmmmm... i've been in love!.

  it's been so long i don't even know where to begin...... well... i guess it all began here at jwd... the beauty of it all, it that this is not a dating website, and the very fact that i was falling in love with a person whom i had no idea of her physical appearance... i was falling for her inner beauty and strenght to leave everything she knew to be happy, to live life.... i had finally met a person who understood me, and i could relate to her stories.... i had met my new best friend, but didn't know it yet... things progressed..... we emailed (which later led to unsolicited photos from her).... then exchanged phone numbers, etc..... then before i know it she had convinced me to purchace an airplaine ticket to meet her.

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  collegegirl21

  You two are adorable! GG/BG - we have to hang out sometime soon if you are back in Mad-town :)
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  The love of your life "cheats" on you....could you forgive?

  by new boy in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  the old age question............ say, your "soul mate" the love of your life, goes on a trip with some friends.........something happens one night...... they have sex with a stranger( or even a friend)............they come home and tell you what they did............they still love you.. what would you do?...............is the marriage over?

  or what?.

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  collegegirl21

  For some of you who did forgive (like me) do you ever find that when you fight you tend to bring it up and throw it in their face? Sometimes when I get mad that's what I do and I know its wrong, but I am still so hurt by it.