My ex husband whose grandfather is a Governing Body member and whose dad is an Elder cheated on me with at least one guy that I have proof of.
Posts by snarf
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40Elders son is GAY!!!
by Wordly Andre inha ha ha ha ha ha ha.
just looked up my old high school in classmates.com, i saw this dude who was a couple years older than me, didn't really know him but i knew his brother (who left the org the same time i did), his dad kicked him out of the house and he lived in his car, they are sons of one of the elders (assholes) who df'd my dad.
the good son was a good little jw that did everything a jw father (elder) would want his son to do, on his bio on classmates.com he says that he is gay, ha ha ha ha.
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Welcome to so many New ones...Question...
by xjwms in.
i found this place from randy's ..."freeminds".
how did you begin your search?
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snarf
I was actually trying to get on the WTS homepage to do some research on an issue I was dealing with at the time, and this came up under the web search under their homepage address so I clicked it, now here I am!
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IF YOU COULD GO BACK IN TIME WOULD YOU MARRY YOUR SPOUSE?
by Dansk ini've been thinking a lot about this lately and i would unhesitatingly say 'yes!'.
we've had our ups and downs - almost always my fault .
my god, how our upbringing can affect us!
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snarf
When it comes to my current soon to be....HECK YES! I wish I would have met him from the very beginning. As for the EX? HECK NO! I had several signs from him in the very beginning that told me to turn and run, but being young and naive I didn't.
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Operation Tomorrow
by Sunspot injust to let you all know why i won't be able to post for some time...i am finally getting in to the hospital for a much-needed operation that kept being postponed.
i have been back and forth to three different hospitals and various doctor's offices for tests, x-rays, consults and then more pre-op tests and x-rays.
(i have never heard of "nuclear testing before now...i wondered if they were going to send me to nasa!
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snarf
Annie,
You will be in my thoughts. I wish the best of success with the operation.
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Your Drink (in pub, bar or club/restaurant/home)
by KW13 in.
i love carling 'extra cold' lager.. .
i am going to the pub tonight - whoo!
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snarf
When at home, a good cup of Irish Coffee does the trick. When out, nothing goes down like a Mai Tai.
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I was 19 when an elder came on to me
by Mistah MOJO ini was a nineteen year old kid when a jw elder in his late fifties came on to me.
i was going through some awful stuff and dropped by his mobile home for spiritual counsel and a listening ear.
he answered the door in skivvies and a t-shirt.
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snarf
SICK SICK SICK !!!! I am so glad you made it out of there unmolested. That just shows how their stupid two witness rule really allows child molesters to prey on the innocent.
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Were you the only JW in your family?
by karen96 insometimes i think of all the pain i caused my parents when i left their home to pursue my bible studies.
it happend right around the holidays and my father's birthday, and seemed to be such a slap in the face to him.
he almost didn't come to my wedding, to walk me down the aisle, since i would not attend family functions around holidays and birthdays (he did walk me down the aisle; after i made some appearances but made it clear i was not celebrating).. now that i am out, i am so glad i have been able to repair my relationships with my parents and siblings.
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snarf
I was the only one in my family as well. Thankfully I never followed through with the baptism! My family never judged me, but they were always good about asking questions and bringing up issues of the world, such as different charities, etc., to get me thinking about how the WTS DOESN'T contribute, only to their own. I am very grateful for their patience and understanding with me. Now that I have left the JW our relationships are so much better.
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FLUFF- Whats your guilty pleasure song?
by Asheron ini was driving home today and elo's "mr. blue sky" came on.
i sang my ass off (closed windows of course).
whats your guilty pleasure song?
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snarf
Great white's Once bitten and twice shy. Doesn't matter where I am, I gotta sing and dance to that song. Reminds me of the good ole days, road trippin on gravel roads through the country with a 12 pack, my high school buds, radio blarin on a hot summer day. Those were the best times.
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It seems.......
by agapa37 inthat despite my sincere efforts of sincerity and honesty that most who interacted with me were rather uptight and rude.
i really dont understand it.
forgive my babbling.
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snarf
Alot of people here have been ruined by the WTBTS and have had to rebuild their lives on their own after having lost family and close friends. Some people here have left religion all together, while others have changed their beliefs on what the scriptures say. The scripture that states "bad association spoils useful habits" while involved with the JW meant worldly association of any kind. Now after leaveing the witnesses that scripture means to me having associations with people that tear you down and don't build you up, not necessarily a certian group of individuals. People here aren't looking to hurt your feelings or make you feel unwelcome, but if you are gonna take the chance and post a topic, be prepared to defend your beliefs to others who may either be offended, or just trying to gain further insight on where you are coming from. I hope you stay around. Welcome...
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Am I being overly critical of my mother? Non-JW topic
by snarf inmy mother and i have never had a very close relationship.
she kicked me out of the house when i was 14 to move back in with the guy that molested me for 3 years.
i didn't have contact with her for about 3 years after that incident.
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snarf
Hello Serendipity,
Actually my daughter is in Texas as we speak staying with my mom for a week and having the time of her life. She has been doing pretty good at the grandma gig since I got in touch with her. They went to the mall and got their nails done and did some shopping today, girl time. I will not do anything to prevent them from having contact, but I will be keeping a close eye on their realtionship, I just don't want my daughter to get hurt.