Posts by Nowman

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The Little Children Cry Out For Justice ... Watchtower Discussion

by The wanderer in

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the article appears in the local newspapera few years ago, there appeared a newspaper article .

claiming that there were child molestation cases in-.

volving the watchtower society.

Nowman

wanderer,

Have you tried Bill Bowen's site, silentlambs.org? This is where you should get this information, it will be most helpful. You can email him direct too.

Nikki

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Agnostic or Athiest--which makes more sense?

by whyizit in

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i can see how someone could be agnostic in their view.

who knows, who cares?

thinking that perhaps "god" is just a spiritual santa claus for people who are afraid of death, etc..... but atheism?

Nowman

I am an agnostic. I do not have to have all my questions answered. I need to see it to believe it, I guess. The one thing that makes me think that God is possible, is child birth and the whole process. How could that have developed by chance? Of course there are other things, but this always gets me wondering....Being an agnostic works for me, because I like to be open minded and make my own conclusions whether it be privately to myself or verbally while in a discussion.

Nikki

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Challenging the Discussion Board with Unsettling Questions

by The wanderer in

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does the watchtower live with you everyday?

this post contains reasonable questions due to the fact.

that individuals who no longer claim to be one of jehovah's.

Nowman

Dear Wanderer,

Thanks you for your nice comment. To reply back to you, I enjoy your topics and try to respond to as many that I think I feel I can make a good point too (at least in my mind) or offer some of the same experiences so many have had here on this board.

Nikki

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Challenging the Discussion Board with Unsettling Questions

by The wanderer in

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does the watchtower live with you everyday?

this post contains reasonable questions due to the fact.

that individuals who no longer claim to be one of jehovah's.

Nowman

I ve been out for 15 years this October, and for the 1st 10 years, the watchtower haunted me, couldn't help it. Tried not to analyze too much about it though, I knew why it stayed so long. I was born and raised a JW. It was all I ever knew. I was part of cult. The proof is right here that we were all involved in a cult (or still are possibly). The last 5 years, I feel the remnants of the WTBS are out of my mind 98% of the time, until something pops up that will remind me of that prior life. These are just memories, that will go away because I am easliy distracted.

We all come here for different reasons, but I am sure one of them is that there is a common bond. So, even though there are those that say "they are free of the watchtower" and come here, I believe they are still free of the watchtower. Even though we may think about our past lives as part of this cult, does not mean we are still haunted, but some may be. Each individual will be different and handle it different. For me, its OK to wonder about the WTBS and the people involved, my heart goes out to the good ones still involved who are brainwashed, too bad for them. I love my life as non-JW even if the past existed and I think about it from time to time.

Nikki

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Did You Ever "Report" Someone (Or Yourself) To The Elders???

by minimus in

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ever snitch on anyone??

?

Nowman

I never did, but I was turned in alot when I was a teenager. But, when I finally left the org in 92, I did admit to my dad the elder when I had committed fornication (when if finally did happen 3 months after I left home) so they he could get with the elders and I would be disellowshipped.

Nikki

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What's it like?

by Jerohobobonadad in

hello all.. i have always wondered what feelings people have in the hours/minutes prior to getting baptised, the seconds immediately afterwards and then the first few hours thereafter?.

i've never done it, but it seems like it would be a real head f-!.

anyone willing to share their experiences?.

Nowman

I was 15. I was baptized at Sportman Park in Chicago, when I stepped on the ladder to the pool, I saw my dad! It was a surprise! He was going to baptize me. I was so excited. My parents bought me a new outfit, it was 1989, so I had this sundress that was hot pink and white polka-dotted. I had these cool white flats on that had ties, where you tie up the ankle and calve. I thought I was sooooo cool! I do not remember how I felt about the org, but I was very excited to wear my new outfit.

My being baptized was also to make my parents happy. That is basically how I did everything in those days.

Nikki

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Life in the new system... Ask your questions here....

by JH in

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will there be any industries, with people working midnight to eight?.

will money still exist?.

Nowman

Will there be McDonalds? (I am pregnant right now, I crave their fries)

Will there be malls?

Will I be able to get a new car every 3-4 years?

Will I still be able to color my hair if I want to change things a bit or will I be so happy that I will not want change?

Will I like peas in the new system, cause I hate them now, they make me gag?

Will I get sunburn in the new system? Or will I just get nice and brown?

Just a few of my questions....I do have more....****Nikki****

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Do/did you have a nickname?

by greendawn in

i had one at school and fortunately it wasn't derogatory as they called me "the brainbox" because i was good at lessons.

Nowman

My name is Nicole, but I go by Nikki.

My husband calls be booger-sugar (no, I do not snort coke)....(no, I do not pick my nose either)....don't really know why he calls me that...

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Did anyone else wonder why?

by Jerohobobonadad in

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i always thought that if you want to do 6 or 60 hours a month in field service, why make a big fanfare about it and become a pioneer or whatever?

i always thought if you want to go out loads, then go out loads; why do you need a group of "elders" to approve of it and make an announcement?

i've read about a few on this board who got turned down for pioneering.

Nowman

I did it to make my parents happy.

Nikki

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I don't know how I feel...

by wonderwoman in

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so, i got a call from my jw sis yesterday telling me that my grandpa had a stroke and is in the hospital.

gramps is big-brother-by-the-book-jw.

i have talked to him a handful of times since i was 18. when i was depressed and went to the hospital/therapy etc..he told me to stop being foolish and all i needed to do was pray and go in service more.

Nowman

Wonderwoman, I am sorry for your broken heart, my advice would be to go see your grandfather. I want to respond with the fact that my father has broken my heart, have not seen him in 15 years, he a good, strong JW. I too feel like, "if only he knew how hard I work, and if only he could see me as a mother to my children". He has never met them or seen them. If only he could meet Haley and Dylan and see that they are so sweet and good, and have a real joy for life. If something happened to him though, and someone told me about it, I would do my best to see him, to comfort him, etc. I think I would regret it, if I didn't.

I understand your situation completely, he probably feels too that you broke his heart, but you know its only cause hes brainwashed like good girl bad girl stated...

Nikki