Juni thanks for your response because I am talking about me. When I left my wife and told her I wanted joint custody of our 4 children that was in Oct. 83 Her mother was so pissed because I left her for a man that she concocted a story that I was a leader of a satanic cult murdered children and molested dozens. The children all said it was all a lie but they were not listened to 4 of my employess were also charged and arrested and it became known as the Sacramento snuff film child molest case. I spent days in jail until I got enough money to post bail. While in jail I was beaten raped (I wear dentures today because of it) I lived on the streets of SF for weeks until I got a job and lived in a slum hotel for year while this was in court. After they admitted making up the whole thing they were never charged with perjury or filing a false police report. I ended up on talk shows AM San Francisco and Oprah Winfrey. You never get over something like this and I believe had a thorough investigation been done by law encorcement it never would have gone that far.
Today my kids minds have been totally poisened by their mother and the borg. They are convinced I am demonized because I am Gay. So I still have a lot of hurt and anger inside me but I have a wonderful partner of more than 20 years now and am financially sound.