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  Is everyone accused guilty?

  by hambeak in

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  i have seen a lot of posts here that attack pedophiles and want open records which i agree with.

  pedophiles are detestable and disgusting.. my question is don't you think some are wrongfully accused by some especially in child custody issues?

  i know of some that were accused and arrested and in one case the mother in law and wife admitted in pre trial they made the whole thing up.

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  Juni thanks for your response because I am talking about me. When I left my wife and told her I wanted joint custody of our 4 children that was in Oct. 83 Her mother was so pissed because I left her for a man that she concocted a story that I was a leader of a satanic cult murdered children and molested dozens. The children all said it was all a lie but they were not listened to 4 of my employess were also charged and arrested and it became known as the Sacramento snuff film child molest case. I spent days in jail until I got enough money to post bail. While in jail I was beaten raped (I wear dentures today because of it) I lived on the streets of SF for weeks until I got a job and lived in a slum hotel for year while this was in court. After they admitted making up the whole thing they were never charged with perjury or filing a false police report. I ended up on talk shows AM San Francisco and Oprah Winfrey. You never get over something like this and I believe had a thorough investigation been done by law encorcement it never would have gone that far.

  Today my kids minds have been totally poisened by their mother and the borg. They are convinced I am demonized because I am Gay. So I still have a lot of hurt and anger inside me but I have a wonderful partner of more than 20 years now and am financially sound.
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  WHAT WOULD YOU THINK IF SOMEONE POST.......?

  by juni in

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  did you kill anyone?

  rape anyone?...

  " gary said "no, i was caught cheating on my wife with"... i looked at the jw and said, "look man, we all fall short of the glory of god, right?"..

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  Well I would neve celebrate by a toke on dope I hate that crap! I would probably mind my own business and say nothing as really I am kinda shy. On the other hand if I knew the person I would probably say something. I don't condone adultery but as others have stated there is always more than one side to a story.

  Ham
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  Is everyone accused guilty?

  by hambeak in

  1. jw
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  i have seen a lot of posts here that attack pedophiles and want open records which i agree with.

  pedophiles are detestable and disgusting.. my question is don't you think some are wrongfully accused by some especially in child custody issues?

  i know of some that were accused and arrested and in one case the mother in law and wife admitted in pre trial they made the whole thing up.

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  hambeak

  I have seen a lot of posts here that attack pedophiles and want open records which I agree with. Pedophiles are detestable and disgusting.

  My question is don't you think some are wrongfully accused by some especially in child custody issues? I know of some that were accused and arrested and in one case the mother in law and wife admitted in pre trial they made the whole thing up. In the mean time the mans life was nearly destroyed. More details later if any one is interested.
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  Melaleuca anyone?

  by buffalosrfree in

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  i have recently been the recipient of a 30 plus minute presentation via phone of the melaleuca home based business opportunity.

  what i would like to know is there anyone who uses the board that has any experience with them.

  they are based out of idaho falls, idaho and before i even contemplate getting involved i intend to do some heavy researching all you comments to this effect would be greatly appreciated.

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  Reminds me of the Amway thing that a lot of the dubs were trying to recruit for I think it is all a scam
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  Really old light

  by still wondering in

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  does anyone remember these golden oldies?.

  president kennedy was assassinated because he was a good man, "he didnt fit satans book", this was the societys view according to those who had inside information.

  i'm not sure how long that view persisted, probably until the first tv documentary on his life.. the berlin wall fell because jehovah decided it was now time to open up the work behind the iron curtain.

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  Yeah I remember about Jesus with no facial hair Does the Paradise book ring a bell? Brings up another question if Jesus could have a beard why can't active Dubs?
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  BIG NEWS!!! Study finds that men always thinking about sex.

  by Elsewhere in

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  who'da thunk?

  http://upi.com/newstrack/view.php?storyid=20061024-033917-3795r.

  report finds sex always on men's minds.

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  Remember the awake article on masturbation? You must keep your mind clean and not dwell on such things as they are impure and can lead to fornication of the heart. My god I can't believe I wrote that! rotfl lmao
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  What would you say is the main reason why people didn't listen to us?

  by JH in

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  when i started going out door to door, i was sure i'd bring a couple of people with me to the org.

  i knew my parents believed in god and the bible, so i was sure i'd be able to convince them with a few simple verses that we had the truth.

  but no, they didn't seem convinced enough to want to study.

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  I studied with some and couple became baptized. I remember one young man who was in the navy 2 years older than me at the time. I represented him before the navy board at Mare Island naval shipyard in Vallejo, he was honorably discharged and became very zealous for the org. Years later I saw him in a gay bar in SF df'd and miserable, I wish I knew then what I know now.
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  Wealthy vs Poor Cong. Which ones were more real?

  by hambeak in

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  i am curious about this because as i was growing up i attended a very poor cong.

  benches for seats and light bulbs hanging from wires from the ceiling and mostly black folks.

  some of the best people i ever knew never stingy alway kind.

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  Yes there are many wealthy I mean really wealthy congregations for example Lafayette Ca and Orinda most of the Jw's have million dollar homes. Swimming pools Always a new expensive car European vacations cruises etc. very pious and self riteous folks.
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  Wealthy vs Poor Cong. Which ones were more real?

  by hambeak in

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  2. tech-support

  i am curious about this because as i was growing up i attended a very poor cong.

  benches for seats and light bulbs hanging from wires from the ceiling and mostly black folks.

  some of the best people i ever knew never stingy alway kind.

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  I am curious about this because as I was growing up I attended a very poor cong. benches for seats and light bulbs hanging from wires from the ceiling and mostly black folks. Some of the best people I ever knew never stingy alway kind. After I married moved away and attended a hall where everyone was middle class or above very snooty and materialistic

  Any one else experience this?
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  RADICAL ELDERS WHO BROKE THE RULES - we salute you

  by dannygwalsh in

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  thought id inject a bit of light hearted humor , any stories of elders who were unorthodox in a witness way , .

  there was one elder in the hall i used to attend called ronnie [edit] , who i still like and admire as a person to this day , he was always very outspoken when he didnt agree with the society on there policy and doctrines and was pra, ctically opposed to bethel service , i remember him giving a talk on applying for bethel service in the km many years ago , and at the end of the talk he said joking with a wry smile , i dont know why any of the brothers would want to do that , sounds like slave labour to me, also whe he was conducting the revelation book study , when it talked about the seven plagues of god being fulfilled in a wt convention in ohio in 1919 , he turned round and said , i dont know where the society get all this from , ... .

  he also had a very distinctive voice spoken thru pursed lips in a rasp like voice saying thats just stupid , whenever he didnt agree with the society and other elders , a great man in spite of his beliefs , he was one of the elders on my jc who srongly opposed my disfellowshipping , but he was overuled- .

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  I knew a couple years ago very kind wonderful guys with great families but when they questioned anything they were promptly removed and marked. Lost contact with them and later found out they both died.