good morning guys, i'm a women in love with a jw who does not feel the same way about me!
we have been in this relationship for the past seven years!
i will try to make this short and to the point so as not to bore you ok!
Hi GentlyFeral
I'm not real sure what you are suggesting but if it's what i think, my answer is this! Where i come from Trinidad, there is a practice called Obeah and basically it's Voodoo! Since i was raised in America i never beleived in Magic of anykind! I know you are not trying to be funny or rude but just trying to help! I thank you for trying but i will pass on this one!
Paula
what were some of the worst experiences you had with ex spouses or ex boyfriends/girlfriends?
one of my ex girlfriends just left me suddenly without ever saying anything in advance and i never saw her again for a long time and that happened by coincidence.
her disappearence was totally unexpected.
My first x husband tried to kill me when i left him!!
Paula
I like to play Poker, "no peekie" and Texas Holdem" are my favs!
Paula
good morning guys, i'm a women in love with a jw who does not feel the same way about me!
we have been in this relationship for the past seven years!
i will try to make this short and to the point so as not to bore you ok!
Hi Frog
You sort of kind of hit the nail on the head. I don't feel i deserve to be treated this way but it's more like i don't want to go thru life w/o him and i do know/understand how damaging our relationship is to both of us!! I to think of myself as a "smart women" but not in the subject of love!
Hello jgnat
It's nice to hear from you again, i look forward to all your post! I'm not sure which "him" you are referring to!!
How ya doing Judc?
Thank you, i just read the post, i have heard of stories like that but i never thought of myself as one!!
Paula
good morning guys, i'm a women in love with a jw who does not feel the same way about me!
we have been in this relationship for the past seven years!
i will try to make this short and to the point so as not to bore you ok!
Hi jgnat
No, i not trying to ignore the good advice i am receiving here! If after seven years of wanting out and not having the emotional strength to do so, why would a few days of reading all these nice peoples post work! Like some of the post said, when i am good and fed up with the abuse i will put an end to it!
I have had more drama in my life before meeting Michael that the drama in our relationship is no where near what i have already dealt with!! I hope you are having a great evening, good night and bless your heart!
Paula
Dear Clam
Try as you might you will never understand us!
good morning guys, i'm a women in love with a jw who does not feel the same way about me!
we have been in this relationship for the past seven years!
i will try to make this short and to the point so as not to bore you ok!
mkr32208
Good idea sweetie, but i'm too shy and isn't that against the law? BTY, he has never hit me, that i would never stand for and he knows it!!
lola28
Thank you sweetie, that is also a good idea! I live in Long Beach!!
Paula
i've fallen in love with a jehovah's witness and i know she feels the same way about me but the problem is that im a methodist and cant find it in me to give up my faith and become a jehovah's witness as i would not expect her to give up her faith and it is driving us both crazy.
i've known this lovely lady for the past 8 years and have only now told her how i feel and every second im away from her im thinking of her wanting to be with her.
so im asking people who might know or be able to help
Have a great evening Rub a Dub!
good morning guys, i'm a women in love with a jw who does not feel the same way about me!
we have been in this relationship for the past seven years!
i will try to make this short and to the point so as not to bore you ok!
Hi uninformed
I have asked for money just to see if he would and he always says he doesn't have it even tho i know how much money he earns! He makes three times the amount i do! Did i say he's also a "tightwad"?? I thought of inviting an elder but he won't allow me to know which hall he goes to!!
Hi cyd0099
Thank you sweetie, it's only the sex he wants from me, he could care less about if i love him or not!
Good morning Frannie
Thank you, i'm still looking for that darn thing!!
Dear sweet Christine
Thank you for sharing! When Michael and i broke up, about a week later all i could still think about was getting even but didn't know how to do it in a way that was legal!! So i called his exwife who was visiting one of his daughters and it just so happened that he was there as well!! I had met his x and his three daughters some time back so they knew were i lived and what i looked like but he told them i was "just a neighbor" which i don't think they believed but was easy to accept!!
His x didn't seem to be surprised or shocked while we spoke, when i got to the part of our conversation were i said "Michael and i have been having sex for the past five and a half years i heard a click on the phone, it seems one of his daughters was listening!! His x ask me why i was telling her about Mikie and i told her that we just broke up because i caught him with another woman!!
I said that the stress of his hiding me was eating me up and i just couldn't hold it in any longer!! She said "and all this time i thought he was a good christian"! Then she ask if i mind if she told him about what i just said and i said "please do"! As it turned out they didn't discuss it for a couple of weeks and Mikie said he admitted everything to her and she called me a whore and ask him why he did such a stupid thing!
Of all the people in the world she knows his sex drive better, what a dumb question for her to ask him!! They were married for about 24 years. BTY, men can be whores as well!!
Love and Peace to you and yours
Paula
Hi Jojochan
About looking in the mirror, i avoid it everytime i can!!
Hi upside/down
Thank you sweetie, i could only seek counseling close by and with no charge for their services! The church was only two blocks away!! It did help to speak to someone who doesn't know us, he took my side on every issue but one, his said i should not have told Michael's x!! It seems all you guys stick together,heeheehee!
Paula
i've fallen in love with a jehovah's witness and i know she feels the same way about me but the problem is that im a methodist and cant find it in me to give up my faith and become a jehovah's witness as i would not expect her to give up her faith and it is driving us both crazy.
i've known this lovely lady for the past 8 years and have only now told her how i feel and every second im away from her im thinking of her wanting to be with her.
so im asking people who might know or be able to help
So true Aude, good night for now and have a great evening!
Paula
