Bstndance,
I hope you don't take this as an attack on you because it is not. How you live your life is completely up to you and none of my business as long as it does not affect me. If you are happy then I am happy for you.
If you knew me you would know that I am very opinionated BUT balanced person.
It is a fact that if you have unprotected sex with someone with HIV you are more likely to contract HIV/AIDS than if you did not have unprotected sex. If that is not a consequence then I don't know what is.
It is like saying that if I touch a hot stove I am more likely to get burned than if I did not. That is a consequence.
You can "FEEL" as though this is not the case but feelings to not equate to facts.
:That said, I'm not going to continue reading this post. ; You are entitled to your opinion. ; Yes, acceptance is part of the world
: agenda; but, why should I accept anyone that believes I deserve a fatal illness based on the sex I am genetically programmed to be attracted
:to?
Here you go way off line and imply that I said this, that you deserve something because of your genetics. That is FALSE and misrepresentitive. This is another case of trying to change the focus from facts to incindary comments.
1.) If you want to be accepted despite your sexual choice then you have an obligation to accept others despite their feelings on the matter or you are a hypocrite.
2.) I feel that the result of someones action is reasonable because they knowingly took part in a risky behavior, even if that result is dire.
Try going bunjee(sp?) jumping without signing a waiver that says if you die, tough luck. It won't happen.
Now you believe that you are genetically programmed to like other men? I don't know? I have seen no conclusive evidence to say so. If you say this because you "feel" this is so, well, we all know how scientific feelings are. Also, if you believe this, do you also believe in evoloution? Would this make you and your particular evolved branch more or less likely to survive? Are you developing a new way to have offspring?
I know that you may get offended by what I have said, please don't, please just look at it as someone with a different opinion who respects you for yours.
Regards.