Thank you for such an intellegent discussion!
The quantum mechanics conversation is leading to the perfect axis between spirituality and science. The concept that we are all "one" is reflected in Christianity, Buddhism and Hinduism.
If this intersection is true then both sides, religion and science, have a lot of baggage to shed.
"Einstein said that scientific research is the only thing that qualifies as a religion. If religion claims to deal with the absolute and universal, then what could be more absolute and universal than the things revealed through mathematics and physics? But the systems that are called religions, what do they concern themselves with? Words a person utters--which god he thinks he talks to...Trivial things, things that concern with the behavior of people. There's nothing absolute or universal about that!" (from The Proteus Operation)