I waited and it was a huge mistake. If we had just had sex I doubt we would have gotten married.
I agree with Bluecanary, if I had had sex with my JW hubby before the wedding, there would have been no wedding.
I wanted sex and intimacy, my JW hubby just wanted a beard. That man could fall asleep at the drop of a hat, anytime that we were alone together he would immediately go to sleep.
I spent my late teens, twentys, and early thirties so sexually frustrated that I could have bit through nails.
I do not recommend "waiting for marriage" to anyone, I think it is a ridiculous concept.