Yes, I am living with my fiance. I have not PUT her in a place to help, but she has desired and longed for it to help make peace between me and my kids. My ex and her actually get along very well. My fiance is a good mediator for two sides who can't talk. I do think she is of much more help to the situation than a hinderance. ALL my family responded very well to her and actually ended up trusting HER more than me. So, no, it is not her responsibility, but she is someone all sides have seen as a help.
Yes, my fiance was with me on the last trip. The last trip was for my divorce hearing. My sister from Illinois was there to help support my ex and when she had to go home, she called her back from her drive home to come back and get the girls. I still don't have an answer as to why she did it. The girls and I had a nice visit the night before and we were going to go shopping the following day. I was told I would have the time, but didn't get it.
Actually, the girls ended up NOT wanting to go to the hall with us. We ended up being the ones to be really recommending going to the hall. I had previously brought them there when it was closed so they would be familiar with it.
Yes, we had Christmas. Not TOO many presents. At first, they said they wanted to try Christmas as they had never done it before, but then later said they didn't want it.
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Thanks again!