Thanks Loves, looks like it is time to have a nice chat with lynda. Things have returned to normal, pretty much. It seems, though, everytime she talks to Gracy or another JW, they put it in her mind how aweful i am for her. It must be satan controlling my life. i guess i am inherintly evil as i am from the world and not in "the truth".
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***UPDATE*** girlfriend DFed
by kgav8r inokay, many of you know my story.
for those who do not, read it: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/116414/1.ashx so now, my girlfriend's "sister" has been given an ultimatum.
she must stop associating with lynda (my girlfriend) or be dfed herself.
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***UPDATE*** girlfriend DFed
by kgav8r inokay, many of you know my story.
for those who do not, read it: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/116414/1.ashx so now, my girlfriend's "sister" has been given an ultimatum.
she must stop associating with lynda (my girlfriend) or be dfed herself.
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Okay, many of you know my story. For those who do not, read it: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/116414/1.ashx So now, my girlfriend's "sister" has been given an ultimatum. She must stop associating with Lynda (my girlfriend) or be DFed herself. The problem, though, is that she has not stopped her associations. They are doing everything in secret. They will not stop hanging around each other. They just are not soing what they are "supposed" to. I don't want Gracy to be involved with the JW's either but if she gets DFed too, i fear it is over for me. There is just not enough room in any of our lives for a threesome. I've said it before, i cannot compete with Gracy. I know it may seem evil and selfish, but i wish Gracy could just be out of the picture for awhile so i can tend to Lynda and we can decide what we want. Then, maybe, we can help Gracy get out of the organisation. Mostly, i just needed to vent. Thank you all for listening to me. Advice? Comments?
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Her friend is on her way to being DF'd
by kgav8r inwell, it has been a long week and a half.
things are nearing normalcy.
i fear that something more may happen.
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Gracie and Lynda are so close. Even though Gracie has her own house now, she sleeps over every night at Lynda's. Gracie is way too attached to Lynda, she won't let Lynda have her own time. Everytime we go out, everytime, Gracie either calls or texts. Then half an hour later when the food is cold, we get to continue with the evening. If they were on the phone, Gracie immediately texts after she hangs up. Like i said in previous threads, she is more like a second child than a sister. It's like having a growth that won't go away. I always feel like she is with us, and she is in one form or another. Even during movies, Gracie texts or calls just to see what's going on or whatever burning questions she has that just can't hold on another hour and a half to be answered. I just wan't my time, our time. It's something we rarely get. So, in that respect, it's like a competition. I'm competing for the affection and i'm losing. I just can't compete and win, Lynda has known Gracy longer.--KG
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Her friend is on her way to being DF'd
by kgav8r inwell, it has been a long week and a half.
things are nearing normalcy.
i fear that something more may happen.
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Well, it has been a long week and a half. Things are nearing normalcy. I fear that something more may happen. As of late, Lynda(my GF) and Gracy (her "sister") have been hanging out a lot. No big deal to me, but for those of you who don't know, Lynda has been DF'd. Saturday night, an elder from Gracy and Lynda's Hall saw the two together. Now there is going to be a meeting (a Judicial matter i am told) on Wednesday to decide what to do with Gracy. In all likelyhood, Gracy will be "marked." If things progress and she, too, is disfellowshipped, as i fear, this will spell the end of my relationship with Lynda. I cannot and will not compete with Gracy. For those of you who have no clue what i am talking about, here is a link to my story: http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/6/116414/1.ashx
Not really sure what my question is or if there even is one. Just kind of venting. I know there are others on this board with far greater problems than I. Feel free to comment, though. Kind of interested in everyone's take on my story.
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Masonic Graveyard - Jehovah's Witness Update with New Pics - Pittsburgh Pen
by Gumbley inthis is part 2 of this previous post concerning the talmudic jehovah's witness organization and their masonic/knights templar founder charles taze russell.
another masonic tombstone found in the russell owned allegheny graveyard .
as i had demonstrated in past posts of jehovah's witness founder, charles taze russel, beinga knights templar, buried with an illuminati pyramid shrine in a graveyard in pittsburgh, i have added some more photos here thanks to www.jesus-is-savior.com .
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"Maybe it was the Masons who started the Witnesses in some back room bet????"
LOL!!! Now that i could believe!!!
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Question for those living in a religiously divided household.
by kgav8r ini suppose i should have labeled this as questions.
is it ever hard?
are you ever at odds with your spouse?
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I suppose i should have labeled this as questions. Is it ever hard? Are you ever at odds with your spouse? I mean particularily at holidays or birthdays for those married to JWs. Do you ever feel bad that your spouse can't attend or does your spouse ever feel bad? Just some burning questions on my mind just in case i do marry my love and she does remain a JW. In general what is it like? Would you consider your relationship normal or strangely unique?
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What Bothers You The Most About Jehovah's Witnesses?
by minimus infor me, i think it's their hypocrisy.
they lead (the vast majority) a double life.
and ultimately they look down on anyone not a jw yet they won't even wn up to it.
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I agree, JH. In fact, there isn't just one thing that bothers me the most. I think their whole thinking is flawed. There is just so much that bothers me about them. Uhg! It's so frustrating!!!
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What Bothers You The Most About Jehovah's Witnesses?
by minimus infor me, i think it's their hypocrisy.
they lead (the vast majority) a double life.
and ultimately they look down on anyone not a jw yet they won't even wn up to it.
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I have a unique perspective, having never been a JW, but being exposed first hand to there beliefs. Being on the outside, the quality i find to be their worst, is their ability to turn against one of their own and condemn them. It seems so easy for them to treat one like a brother on one day when they "know" they share beliefs, then the next day judge them as the worst, call them an apostate, and scorn and shun them after finding out the accused went two-stepping with a "worldly man" at a bar last night. The said accused will then "repent" (submit their lives to the standards of a dozen men in Brooklyn) and everything is once again okay. I guess the ability turn the love on and off without even thinking hurts the most.
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Mid MO anyone??
by crazyblondeb inwe are trying to put a mini-fest, actually just a get-together for late this month.
so for anyone going to be in the mid-mo area, let me know.
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I'm in SE kansas. I'd be willing to drive depending on location and date.
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The whole story! Why my girlfriend was DF'd (super long)
by kgav8r inat the suggestion of jgnat, i'm gonna pour my heart out to give the whole story of my current situation.
i've also moved the thread topic to the friends category as i no longer consider this a private matter, so now everyone can help!!!
so i met lynda at work.
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I agree with you 100% about Gracie, jgnat. I have had to bite my tongue several times in an attempt to not be cruel when speaking of this matter to Lynda. I have told Lynda before, though, that Gracie seems more like a second child than a sister. Lynda agrees with me on this and she and Gracie have gone around and around concerning this, too. If by cutting the purse strings you mean not supporting Gracie, believe me, i wish i could. I have only given directly to Gracie on a few occasions. Mostly I give to Lynda who in turn gives to Gracie. Lynda, for whatever reason, feels obligated to take care of Gracie. I think this may be because Lynda was a mojor factor in Gracie moving out of her parent's home. Like i said, they are best friends and i enjoy Gracie's company, too, but we have always brought her along with us either personally or via text messages. Gracie is only 21 and i don't think she really knows what she wants. Once agian, in my view, she is more like a daughter to Lynda than the sister she claims to be. A sister would understand when the other needs her own time. Gracie is not like this; she is an attachment, a growth, if you will. I had thought this situation would put more distance between them. So far the effect has been limited.