Yes JT, I remember that KM very well. They wanted to use my 14 year old son in that demonstration.
After reviewing the information in the KM, I forbade him from taking part. This caused some upset on the meeting night and the elder giving the part had to do without his demonstration!
It was one of the very rare occasions when I actively prevented my son from doing something related to the JW religion (he was all for the religion at the time) and of course I was slammed as an 'opposing mate'.
The following day I sent this letter to the elder concerned:
Dear Bro *******,
I am writing to express my apologies for any inconvenience caused through my withdrawing of consent for Benjamin to take part in your demonstration in Thursday's service meeting.
I feel it would be courteous to offer an explanation. I can assure you that this decision was not taken lightly. This was a very unusual action for me to take, since I am normally VERY tolerant of other's beliefs. As a rule I give consent for my family to take part in whatever religious activities they desire, accepting that most of the beliefs of Jehovahs Witnesses are relatively harmless, some are beneficial.
There are, however, some notable exceptions. I have looked at the information you gave to Benjamin, and also looked at the context in which the piece was given: part of a three part series. It is clear from reading the Kingdom Ministry that the main idea being presented is to discourage young people from considering further education over spiritual goals (pioneering).
It is this aspect of the Society's teaching that I find objectionable. I consider it extremely irresponsible, in today's competitive employment market, to discourage young people from achieving their full potential educationally. I am aware of the context of your beliefs (that the end of the world is near) but, as no one knows when or if this will happen, I consider it potentially very harmful to stress such a short-term outlook. I believe that in thirty years time many thousands of Jehovahs Witnesses will be struggling to provide for themselves and their families as a direct result of listening to such dangerous advice, indeed, this is already the case for many who listened to similar myopic advice 30, 40, 50 etc years ago.
In any case, as Benjamin's father, I feel that it is my responsibility to protect him as best as I can from harm. For this reason I have made my concerns clear to my family. I'm sure you will agree that this is what any father should do. If you wish to discuss this further I am more than willing to do so.
Yours sincerely,
Dean Moorhouse.
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Oh, and don't let them keep you in a state of bitterness about what could have been. I have just got a degree in primary education - at the age of 41.
If you didn't do it then, do it now!
Edited by - dmouse on 15 August 2002 5:8:22