There is a story about a wife who comes home to find her husband in bed with another woman. The other woman gets dressed and leaves and the husband gets dressed and pretends nothing happened. The wife is upset and says "why were you cheating on me?" He responds "I wasn't cheating on you". She says "But I saw you with another woman in bed". He says "who are you going to believe, me or your lying eyes?"
This is how mind control works. They are constantly reinforcing the idea that they are so much better than other religions, to the point that it becomes hard for people to see the reality, that actually they are much worse. They also are constantly telling people that they cannot trust their own judgement, that they are sinful and weak, that they need those men in Brooklyn to tell them what is right and wrong. People dismiss the hypocrisy they see, or minimize it, or make excuses, because to face the reality is too overwhelming and goes against everything they have been conditioned to believe.