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  Anybody have any experience with this?

  by stillin in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  an elderly sister passed away recently.

  family came to her memorial service from all over the country.

  some of them, including grown-up, disfellowshipped children of hers, also came.

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  LisaRose

  This is just horrible, disgusting behavior, it's like these people have no moral compass or true sense of right or wrong. They are letting those clowns in New York keep them from showing basic human kindness and compassion. I think if I was going to be treated like that I would just skip the whole thing all together.
  
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  What would happen if you drop a fake check or bill in the donation box?

  by StarTrekAngel in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  what would happen if we started dropping fake check or bills inside the donation box of an assembly?

  i know, is a crime, but so is pushing someone to not accept blood and die.

  would it help skew the numbers enough if enough of us did it?.

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  LisaRose

  Dear brothers,

  I am sorry to tell you that I am unable to donate any funds to the Watchtower for this convention. You see I lost my job and I can't seem to find another. These days there are a lot of people with a four year degree who are competing for the same jobs I am, and of course they get hired before me. I was told when I was young that I wouldn't have time for a career in this system of things, so of course I didn't go to college.

  In addition, it has come to my attention that many of the funds that I contributed to the worldwide work in the past have instead been used to settle child sex abuse lawsuits. In fact, it seems you would rather pay millions than change your policies, provide legally required discovery documents and testify when served with a subpoena. As a Christian, I cannot in good conscience support this kind of thing.

  I know you have lots of expenses related to your new building project in Upstate New York, but as the elders told me when I lost my job, you just need to rely on Jehovah, he will provide.

  
  

  
  
  
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  In your opinion: What would a teacher of the English language say about the way Anthony Morris III speaks?

  by LogCon in

  1. watchtower
  2. bible

  considering the language, wording and grammar of anthony morris iii, if a teacher on the english language, at a prestigious university were to analyze anthony's public speaking, what comments and conclusions would they come to?

  i say public speaking, because i would assume that an individual would be more careful with their words when spoken in public, than in private.

  serious comments would be appreciated, however, i realize that outlaw and a few others are probably on a page of their own.. .

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  LisaRose

  I showed my husband part of Letts introduction and he thought it must be a parody, lol.

  I have to say I was somewhat shocked seeing the Governing Body members speaking for the first time. It's hard to believe they lead a religious groups of millions of people. They aren't good speakers, don't seem to reate to the audience, don't seem especially spiritual and are just plain odd.

  These guys wouldn't get appointed to an assistant pastor position in a small church in a Podunk town.
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  Why would anyone want to join jovie world?

  by Doltologist in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i can understand why someone who was born of jovie parents would want to leave jovie world.

  i can see why someone who had joined jovie world would want to leave.

  after all, why would you want to stay in such an evil institution?.

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  LisaRose

  LisaRose

  Are you still in?

  Also, we now have the internet and, thank goodness, forums such as this one. Why do you think people still join jovie world?

  No, I have been out for a long time, but I was in for thirty years

  You need to stop using that term, it's insulting to use a derogatory name that is not known or used in the JW world or the ex JW world. You can call us JW, Ex JW or dubs or ex dubs.

  I don't know why anyone would join these days, but I think their message does appeal to people who are looking for answers to life's difficult problems, as it seems to present a solution. They say don't worry about death, disease and the bad in the world, Jehovah is going to fix all that, if you just do what we say. They sometimes get people who are going through a difficult life event or crisis. At first it can seem very appealing, promises of an idyllic life on the earth.

  The problem is it's a cult that uses mind control techniques to keep people enslaved. I know it's hard for people to understand if they haven't been through it, but the people that join are not stupid, just maybe naive and idealistic. Once they have you they keep you by constant reinforcement. That is why they have to go to four hours of meetings a week, plus door to door work.
  

  
  

  
  

  
  

  
  
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  Why would anyone want to join jovie world?

  by Doltologist in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i can understand why someone who was born of jovie parents would want to leave jovie world.

  i can see why someone who had joined jovie world would want to leave.

  after all, why would you want to stay in such an evil institution?.

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  LisaRose

  They don't tell you about the things they do when you join. You have to study with someone for quite a while before you get baptized. Even then I was told that only people who committ very serious sins and are who are unrepentant and refuse to stop will be disfellowshipped. This was not at all true, but I didn't find that out for years, by then I was too brainwashed to leave.

  Of course when I converted it was back in 1968, there was no internet and no easyway to check things out, plus I was only 13. I was attracted to the idea of living on a restored earth. My sister who was ten years older than me converted and that is what got my parents and I interested.

  I think the internet is making it very easy for people to see what they are getting into, so they are not seeing the growth like they used to.
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  Music

  by Mr.logic in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  we would all agree that music whatever its form or genre, speaks to us, maybe a favorite childhood nursery rhyme, maybe dads music,etc.

  a lot of us where shut down to such wordly things, some were not.

  music has always helped me in hard times, that song, that artist, that let's get moving stuff, what speaks to you, its not a cure all, but what do you like?

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  LisaRose

  I like folk rock, Celtic, some pop, some alt. Right now I am listening to meditation music, it helps me sleep better if I do that for an hour or so before bed. It also helps calm down the cat, she gets the rips in the evenings sometimes. She will actually come up and ask me to lift up the blanket so she can crawl under, chill out and listen to the music.
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  having a dark night of the soul

  by Miss Behaving in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i'm writing this here because i need someone to talk to, and you're the only folks i know who will understand.

  most of the time i think i'm a pretty happy and together person, but lately, i'll see something that reminds me of my family and i'll spontaneously start crying.

  i miss them so much and my heart keeps breaking, and even though i have kind people i work and volunteer with, i feel so incredibly lonely sometimes.

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  LisaRose

  ((Hugs)) Miss B., so sorry you are down right now. I have had problems with the black dog (depression) myself. I hope it hasn't been going on too long, if so you need to get help. It's understandable that you would feel down, it's rough losing family, but there are ways to deal with these things and move on with your life. Time is a great healer, so keep that in mind.

  What helps me is being creative, exercise, volunteering, journaling and meditation.

  I have a small business fixing up old furniture and selling antiques. I don't make a lot of money, but if I don't have a creative outlet I don't feel right. Do you have a hobby or interest you would like to explore? Have you thought about volunteering? Helping others is a great way to feel better, plus you meet nice people.

  I highly recommend meditation. It's good for anxiety and depression, plus a lot of other things. I went from blood pressure of 140 (high normal) to 115, it also helps with my ADHD. Here's a website that has a quick how to:

  http://health.howstuffworks.com/wellness/stress-management/how-to-get-started-with-meditation1.htm

  Journaling also helps with depression. You just sit down and write what ever is in your head, a few pages every day. I don't know how it works, but it does.

  I hope that helps a little. PM me if you want, and please let us know how you are doing. We care.
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  OMG, I’m gonna get Old and Die.

  by John Aquila in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  when it finally clicked,.

  and you realized there was no 1914, there was no generation that would see the end of a wicked system, there was no paradise around the corner, .

  what went through you mind?.

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  LisaRose

  Is this the fruit of evolution? Is this what lurkers should look forward to? Dark days in sad thought with no hope?
  I see no benefit to atheism.

  This is just one person, and one person who is going through a difficult transition, so don't read too much into it.
  

  Something either is true or isn't, the benefit of it doesn't really make a difference in whether it is true or isn't. It's your life, if you want to believe in something because it makes you feel better, then you can, and many people do, and I personally don't have a problem with it. But I can't believe in something just because it's makes be feel better.

  That being said, I have a wonderful life, and feel joy every day. The idea that this life is all I have has made me work harder to make every moment count. I have my bad days just like anyone, but I don't let it get me down. I went out to see the sunset today, it was beautiful and I enjoyed every minute. Not believing in God does not mean you are doomed to a joyless existence, not at all.
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  My Parents Lost Forever?

  by Hold Me-Thrill Me in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  my father served in the second world war.

  he served in the south pacific.

  he loved his time in the military and my mother was more than supporting.

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  LisaRose

  Something isn't true because we want it to be so, nor are things untrue because they are hard to accept. Your parents live on your memories, so write them down for your children and grandchildren to have.

  I have made my peace with the fact that I won't be around in twenty or thirty years. I plan to make that time count and hopefully leave the world a tiny bit better for my children and grandchildren. You can leave a lasting legacy by teaching your children and grandchildren to be good human beings, helping your children and grandchildren to get an education and by volunteering or in other ways bringing your gifts to the world.

  As Ghandi said, You must be the change you wish to see in the world.
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  Breeding Ground for Sex offenders

  by enigma1863 in

  1. watchtower
  2. child-abuse

  the watchtower would never claim that they want child molesters in their congregations.

  no 'respectable' organization would.

  that doesnt mean they are doing anything to prevent it though.

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  LisaRose

  Wouldn't making it easier for pedophiles to stay and prey on childrendirectly cause the WTS to have a higher percentage of them than other religions?

  It could be, but I was thinking that if you are looking at the population as a whole, x percent are pedophiles (I am not sure of the actual number), then you look at those who were born in or converted, the likelihood is that the same percent are pedophiles. (Unless you can make a case that pedophiles are more drawn to JWs than other religions, which would be a stretch, imo).

  But Jehovah's Witnesses are more likely to be involved and active with others in the congregation than people in other religions, so you could make a case that JW pedophiles have more opportunity to meet and connect with vulnerable children within their own congregation than do members of other religions, which then gives them even more incentive to be active in the religion. Pedophiles in other religions probably have less incentive to to stay and be active in their church in order to find victims, unless they are in a position of authority. But they are still counted as members of that church, even if they rarely attend, while JWs are not counted unless they are active publishers.

  So while I don't know if you can say there are a statistically higher percentage of pedophiles in the JWs, I think you could probably make a case that the guy sitting next to you at the Kingdom Hall is more likely to be a pedophile than the guy sitting next to you in church. I just think you need to be careful in making statements about child sex abuse that can't be proven, as it can be counter productive.