I think most do the fake smile thing. Because most people at the hall did not truly care if you were hurting or sad.
earthtone
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Did you make artificial smiles at the hall?
by JH ini smiled alot at the hall.. but i think it was all artificial !!!.
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Prayer Requests
by startingover ini frequent another forum for honda gold wing riders.
when i read there i get irritated by the posts asking for prayers.
either someone or his friend or family has crashed or is sick.
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earthtone
Kinda agree with Arwen on this. Postive engery is always good in my book. It just nice to know people care, when so few do.
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Finally time to introduce myself!
by ZIL ini have been a loooong time lurker on this board.
i want to get in on the action now!!
i was a jw for nearly 25 years.
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earthtone
Welcome, so glad you are here!
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Finding Love with a Former Jehovah's Witness
by The wanderer in<!-- .style1 {font-family: arial, sans-serif} .style2 {font-family: arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; } .style4 {font-family: arial, sans-serif; color: #e68500; } .style5 {font-family: arial, sans-serif; color: #ffc803; } .style6 {font-family: arial, sans-serif; color: #8fa7bf; } .style7 {color: #fe0003} .style9 {color: #8ea4bb} .style10 {color: #ffc803} --> finding love with a former jehovah's witness often times, i thought to myself whether or not it .
would prove to be an advantage or a disadvantage.
dating a former jehovah's witness.. advantage or disadvantage?
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earthtone
I would consider dating a former JW, but I would not actively seek one out.
We all have baggage, so I would not care so much about that, but sometimes I have conversations on this board that are truly heartfelt and very spritually uplifting for me.
My husband does not get why I need to be on here, or why I still cry when I think about all I have missed out on life by being ones of JW's. It because he does not get how destructive the religion is to your morale. How insignificant or horrible they(elders) try to make you feel. Even when I try to talk to him about it he still does not fully comprehend and I get a just get over it vibe from him. That's when I wish he was a former JW, I feel that he would understand me better. My first post here I cried and cried writing it, not really expecting anyone to reply and I was surprise when I bombard with such heartfelt respones. I could even get him to read it. So yeah I would date a former JW.
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Spend how much for wives/girlfriends?
by greendawn inhow much should a man tolerate a girlfriend or wife that is very demanding on clothes/shoes and other articles such as perfumes, handbags etc?
is there a limit to what one should spend to keep them happy beyond which it becomes a case of them taking advantage?
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earthtone
Okay I'm with the minority here, or rather the only one who probably thinks this...........
I don't think there should be a limit. No one should be demanding things either, though. I spend my money freely on my loved ones, but I happen to be very blessed financially. But I don't expect the same thing in return. If I have it to give or spend, I usually do. BUT only on those who would appreciate it.
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Fuzzy Right-of-Way Rules Leads to Pathetic, Awkward, Theocratic Dork Fight
by Check_Your_Premises inapupi - idaho.
"there were watchtowers and osmond cd's strewn around everywhere" recalled the shaken resident marjorie spade, whose yard was the setting for a lame, sissy fight.
"i couldn't believe that in this day and age we still are fighting religious wars", she said in the aftermath of the flailing, ineffectual fracas.. apparantly the outbreak of faith-based nerd violence took place when two groups of youths approached eachother while out in their respective ministries.
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earthtone
lmao... that was cute. For a second I thought it was a real story!
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earthtone
Ooops, this is a legit question??
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JW Fertility Rate No Threat to European Secularism
by Justitia Themis inhttp://www.prospect-magazine.co.uk/article_details.php?id=7913 "breeding for god.".
they have a point.
phillip longman is correct to identify religious fertility as important, but has neglected the "apostasy" side of the equation.
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earthtone
I always felt that they did not encourage having children in this system. I'm not sure how much of this really applies to JW's.
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Movie Reviews
by sandy ini saw "the departed" the other night and i absolutely loved it.
it's very violent though, i must warn those of you who are a little sensitive like myself.
leonardo dicaprio was excellent, to say the least.
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earthtone
Saw departed and loved it also! Waaaaaaaay better than training day.
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earthtone
Okay, okay stop twisting my arm! I'm in as long as I get to be the first to pick my own hot island man.
Honey(hubbie) I'll be thinking of you.........during the day. lmao