Besty writes: "Vinny it is unsustainable to assert that this cannot and has not worked - unless you are privy to worldwide statistics from Brooklyn on such failed attempts? Please share these stats with us. Yes you have offered your opinion, and it stays in the realm of unsubstantiated opinion without facts.
**** I do not need worldwide statistics to tell you why I think an idea will not work. Just a little common sense and some specifics. And I shared specific details just what I think would happen. You did not refute any of it, btw.
Yes, it's only my opinion, and I said just that too many times to remember now. Only you said something in response like, "Thanks for giving me permission" afterwards.
Which of course prompted my reply that you didn't care for.
Look, this is done and over for me. Far too much time on this thing already. I have stated just why I think the idea of a phony reinstatement program will not work with numerous details expressed.
I have addressed/refuted your reasons why you and others like it, also in detail. At least for me I did.
I will conclude with some of those exact reasons given below without the sarcasm (and name spelling corrections) this time.
Have a good one,
Vinny
Besty quotes Vinny: "If you want to beat the system go ahead and do a fade then."
Besty Replies to vinny quote: "There is no one correct solution for all cases. Fading is particularly problematic for those already disfellowshipped, which was the subject of the original post."
**** No more problematic than pulling off a fake reinstatement once people start checking up on you and congratulating/encouraging you.
For starters most people do not live hundreds of miles away from the congregation that disfellowshipped them. So then what? They are dead in mud under your new plan right there. That aint much of a plan to me.
It takes usually six months to a year for reinstatement if you go to meetings for most cases. If you did something heavy, like practicing adultery, then it could take longer. BUT, THE INITIAL JC WILL ALSO SEE RED FLAGS RAISED if you come in any sooner for serious offenses like that.
Obviously people have not thought this thing out very well.
Besty quotes Vinny: "My wife has faded and she can talk to most JW's today."
Besty replies to my quote: "I'm happy your wife can enjoy partially restricted interaction with fundamentalist cult members. Does she have the freedom to discuss her birthday celebrations with her love bomber buddies?"
**** How will wifey be able to talk birthday celebrations under any bogus fade, true fade, active JW, disfellowshipped JW or anything else under the sun? She will not have ANY freedom of speech with ANY JW under ANY circumstances.
Besty writes: " There is no simplistic one-size-fits-all answer to exiting a high control group."
**** All I'm saying is I think your plan for bogus congos and bogus reinstatement letters is a bad idea.
Besty quotes Vinny: "If you instead want to create a phony congregation and phony judicial committees , then go for it. I sure won't stop anybody."
Besty Replies to vinny: "Thanks for the permission to try new ways to defeat the WTS."
**** That'll cost you $250. I'll send permission in writing once I get the funds in hand.
Besty concludes: " If a DF'd person is being shunned how much worse can it get for all concerned? Go on Vinny - unleash the inner optimist that is begging to create new ways to undermine the WTS....or die in a fatalist coffin"....
**** I have seen many ways to undermine WT Society. But this idea sure aint one of the best I've seen. Like I said in beginning anybody that lives close by to congo where DF'd is already dead in mud.
Do you realize that yet?
And those that do move far away will still get caught very soon if it can be pulled off at all.
Like I said on last nights deleted thread: (and good riddance)
"What do you think happens after he gets the reinstatement letter read on Thursday night?
Take a stroll here Cognac...
This guy is a former 20 year elder . And the judicial committee in his old cong that makes the announcement will be asked where he's at today by other elders and by friends and family that know him.
It will get around to other congregations in his circuit that also knew him and that he likely gave talks at for 20 years.
So then what happens? Will ANYBODY want to call to congratulate him? Will anybody call his new cong to get his number? What happens when ONE PERSON calls his congregation and finds out right then and there that he was never reinstated or they never heard of the guy?
Will his old or new C.O. make sure they check on him too?
How about his closest family. Will they be curious to see when he started going to meetings again? Will they want to see him and maybe visit him in his new congregation? Only to find out what?
I can go on and on. Just use your mind and you can see this will never work.
If he really wanted to beat the system he should have just continued going through the motions and gone to the meetings and writing new reinstatement letters until they said yes. He could have written the Society about all those times the brothers kept saying no.
He could have talked to the CO about it when he visits twice a year face to face.
But what was done here is just plain foolish and will never work for any amount of time.
And then after being exposed for this bogus reinstatement with XXXX, what are the chances this guy will ever get reinstated even 10 years later again??"
**** Back to current. Just use some common sense here folks. This is a bad idea. Sorry I think you guys need to go back to the drawing board here.
Vinny
**** Over and out this time!
Aloha,
Vinny