COC was written without hate speech. I would have understood if it was written with loathing towards the BORG. However it was written with care and the love Ray had for his Bethel family was evident in his writing.
My initial reaction was, OK, he sounds like dozens JW's with tales of their ministry and persecution.
And then the realization started hitting home. This 'God directed organization' was nothing of the kind!
It was lies and deceipt and cover ups. When I had finished the book, and i picked up my jaw off the floor, I felt slightly confused. How could I not see all this before?
The guilt thing of abandoning Jehovah's organization, and being a dog 'returning to his vomit' disappeared.
CoC helped me a lot. It put it all in perspective. I was so relieved that e-mailed Ray to say thanks for his courage to write it.
AS