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  Materialism & Adultery

  by sweet pea in

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  so, we were brought up in/enticed into an organisation that we believed was a spiritual paradise.

  everyone appearing to be better than the world around them.

  my experience was of youngsters leading double lives, partying hard like the best of the world.

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  It is embarrassing to say, in our experience non-witnesses seem to be better people. It seems that the "Jehovah will take care of everything" attitude causes witnesses to not be environmentally friendly, they do not think long term. When you think the end is coming and that over 99.6 percent of the world (people) is/are going to get destroyed then why take care of the earth, why conduct business as if your reputation has to last a lifetime, why save for the future, why educate yourself, why be kind to your neighbor because he/she will be gone soon anyway. It is an insane religion. May god (if there is one) help us all.

  Zarco
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  Somewhere to stay between San Francisco and Las Vegas?

  by sweet pea in

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  a friend of mine is travelling from san francisco to las vegas next march and is looking for a great place to stay en-route for a night.

  where would you suggest?

  they were considering yosemite but the road in will be closed when they are travelling.

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  Your friend might want to stay somewhere in Big Sur or the Monterey area. Very beautiful. It is only a couple of hours south of SF but worth staying. Then drive a long day to Las Vegas the next day. Bakersfield is a hell hole.
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  Leviticus 18:22

  by bluecanary in

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  7. lev.

  9. i know from lev.

  (lev.

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  zarco

  Thanks, bluecanary. This is really funny.
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  In the past 20 years, have you seen a balanced, educated adult not raised by JW parents get baptized as a JW?

  by BonaFide in

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  i am not criticizing those who have gone through depression or a traumatic experience.

  nor am i criticizing those who were raised as a witness as i was.. but i am curious to know if any of you have seen a person from the territory, not a relative of a witness, no recent tragedies or emotional problems, not a young runaway, not a drug user, but an educated adult who began a study with jehovah's witnesses, and eventually got baptized.. when i was a missionary, i met a gilead couple who had been in their assignment for 19 years.

  i asked them about that.

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  The other issue that arises is that since the majority of current Witnesses are not balanced emotionally, secularly and intelectually they will have trouble attracting balanced converts. It really does take balanced people to attract balanced people. I think in the 80s and possbily the early 90s the Witnesses had some of the generation that really knew the bible - at least the Witness proof texts - and could attract others with logical reasoning and the power of their lifestyle. Nowdays not so much....
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  In the past 20 years, have you seen a balanced, educated adult not raised by JW parents get baptized as a JW?

  by BonaFide in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  i am not criticizing those who have gone through depression or a traumatic experience.

  nor am i criticizing those who were raised as a witness as i was.. but i am curious to know if any of you have seen a person from the territory, not a relative of a witness, no recent tragedies or emotional problems, not a young runaway, not a drug user, but an educated adult who began a study with jehovah's witnesses, and eventually got baptized.. when i was a missionary, i met a gilead couple who had been in their assignment for 19 years.

  i asked them about that.

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  If you look back 20 years we are still in the late 80s and yes in the 80s and early 90s we knew of and studied with a few that ended up coming in. They were normal, well adjusted educated individuals. Since the early 90s I do not know of any well adjusted, educated individuals that have come in. I am sure there must be some, but it is really rare that Witnesses pull in well adjusted, educated folks. Obviously individuals that have a normal life are not searching for something new and they likely check before they buy. With the availability of information about the Witnesses, I cant imagine many coming in. As many have stated previously, as an American religion some in under-privledged countries might view the Witness life as the American way and give it a try. But other than that, it is going to be kids and a few crazies sitting in the front rows for the baptismal talk.
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  THIS IS IT, THIS IS IT, THIS IS IT?!!!!

  by Hikaru in

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  google alerts caught this.. http://nation.ittefaq.com/issues/2009/07/17/news0133.htm.

  <quote>.

  summit ends with call for global peace .

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  Hikaru,

  Yes. This is the cry of peace and security. It is important that you sell your belongings, stop making payments on all debt and move to where the need it greater. It might be a good idea to throw your money in the streets as well, because it is worthless.

  Let us know how it goes for you.
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  As of July 1st No more reimbursements directly to CO's etc. from congregations.

  by cattails in

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  well if i read it correctly it seems that at the spanish extj.com forum.

  there's a letter (in spanish of course) saying there's a change in the.

  way reimbursement of expenses are going to be made for co's, and.

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  Farkel,

  That is how I see it. If the "Spain Method" spreads to other countries, the Branch will indeed bill the local congregations for social security or similar tax. Nothing like getting an invoice for something you wish you didnt buy.

  Zarco
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  Lost My Job Yesterday

  by InOregon in

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  i am a little sad today.

  i lost my job yesterday.

  i have only worked at this job for 8 months and my position was eliminated.

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  InOregon,

  It is hard not to take job loss personally. In these economic times many qualified hard working people are losing jobs. Try to stay positive, it seems like changes like these can work out for the best. All the best to you.

  Zarco
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  As of July 1st No more reimbursements directly to CO's etc. from congregations.

  by cattails in

  1. watchtower
  2. beliefs

  well if i read it correctly it seems that at the spanish extj.com forum.

  there's a letter (in spanish of course) saying there's a change in the.

  way reimbursement of expenses are going to be made for co's, and.

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  It seems that the new approach in Spain is so that the Branch can charge tax back to the congregations. In other words, CO has $100 expense, the obligation to the CO is $100 plus a tax (let's say $10), so the Branch sends $100 to the CO, $10 to the local tax authority and then bills the congregation for $110. The local publishers bear the burden as it does with most things now days. Circuit Leasing and insurance tax levy on the publishers being examples.....

  Can't really expect the WTBS to cover these costs can you? (joke)
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  How Many JWs Are 100% Committed?

  by minimus in

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  i think most are not.

  i think most do what they must simply to continue their social and family life..

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  This is an interesting question. I also think the answers would vary significantly in response to the "how many are committed vs. zealous". In the congregation that we attend (sometimes) we have no elders who pioneer. We do have one elder that I would say is completely committed. I admire his honesty and example. He conducts several studies and helps those individuals in need. In my opinion, he does a Christlike work.

  The remaining elders are pretty decent guys, but far from committed or zealous. One has burned himself out. One has been divorced a few times and is not really effective. Another seems very militaristic in his approach and is an outlier (few associate with him). The really good elders have resigned their positions. The remaining elders are family men who are reaping the consequences of following the WTBTS advice to shun education and it seems every ounce of their energy is spent taking care of their families.

  The reason I focus on the elders is that the congregations seem to mirror the "norms" set by the elder body. All the Watchtower articles, talks, assemblies and visit from the CO and DO can never even come close to the example of the elders. So likewise the congregation that we attend has a couple of folks who are committed and even zealous and a bunch enjoying the ride. The remainder knows it is intellectual dishonest to be a Witness, but choose not to dwell on it.

  Zarco