I agree....It seems to me that it would be more beneficial to go with your wife. It is always good for her to observe the "loving" way the elders treat you, ya know!
Also, even though you may not have met the people from JWD in person.....you know where you can always come to get support. Meeting in person is not required!
Plus, I just get the feeling you know the right thing to do is go to the dub party....but you were hoping for enough to vote for the fun party!!LOL!