Been out for over 20 years and I told my wife about how you had to disclose every detail when talking to the elders and this included some of the hot sisters who had been involved in immorality. I told her the elders probably really enjoyed those meetings! She made a great argument that since the elders were so horned up their wives probably benefited greatly after some of those meetings, too!!
So back to the point, My father was and still is the strictest of elders and our family never heard a peep about anything. However, another elder in the BOE told his wife everything and his son who was friends with me and my brother, once overheard that one of the brothers came before the committee for bestiality! We joked that after this meeting the elder probably came home and made his wife give it to him doggy-style and bark like a dog!!