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  How to fade successfully?

  by Maddie in

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  i want to fade from the org but i am not really sure how many meetings i should miss to begin with.

  is it best to decrease them gradually or go once a month?

  i have a son and baby grand daughter that are jw's and belong to a different congregation.

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  Frequent_Fader_Miles

  A fade will be that much easier if you can switch congregations. If you "forget" to make the switch official, it will add to the confusion. Just start attending some meetings with the other congregation, and make sure you don't establish a pattern that's easy to figure out

  This is exactly what worked for me! When I moved away, I never even bothered to have my record card transferred. I attended a couple meetings in the new area and the Service Overseer made up a temporary card for me. Within that very month I simply stopped attending. I believe each congregation had assumed I went to the other.
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  those songs

  by bigdreaux in

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  what songs can pick you right up no matter how bad your feeling?

  mine are "mister magic" by grover washington jr. or "sunshine" by roy ayers.

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  Frequent_Fader_Miles

  "Top of the World" by the Carpenters. I loved that song even as a small child!
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  How Many Here Got Depressed Once You Realized It Wasn't The "Truth"?

  by minimus in

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  were you extremely saddened or in despair once you realized you'd been duped??

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  Frequent_Fader_Miles

  I breathed a sigh of relief when I realized the Truth was a load of crap. I had a very hard time believing that serving God was meant to be such a burden. Afterwards, it took some effort to "rewire" my brain, but I'm getting there.
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  All right, which one of you guys did it?

  by RisingEagle in

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  (j/k but i do wish to subscribe to your newsletter).

  i had an interesting dinner conversation a few evenings ago with my staunch jw 'rental unit.

  it started out with the usual small talk that eventually led to them bringing up the plane crash with the rbc members.

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  Frequent_Fader_Miles

  Sigh ... good God! Apostates infiltrating phone lines now? Why go through all that trouble when JW-Double Agents are doing such a great job!
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  The New Service Year

  by WTWizard in

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  2. beliefs

  with it, the new service year for the witlesses.

  they always urge the members to kick off the new service year with a bang.

  pioneer because the new service year is here.

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  Frequent_Fader_Miles

  They always urge the members to kick off the new service year with a bang

  I remember those days ... when it was actually important to me. Sisters would make new clothes, buy new shoes, pick out new service bags ... yuck!
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  The Infamous September 2007 Our Kingdom Ministry

  by TooBad TooSad in

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  on the front page of the km in the branch letter it was proudly annouced that 51 million kingdom news.

  the best example that they could point to to show the success of this work was after.

  receiving a copy, an inactive sister had trouble sleeping.

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  Frequent_Fader_Miles

  looked up all the bible scriptures and they did not apply to the topic

  Hmph! So what's new?
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  Is anyone thinking of attending the Service Meeting next week?

  by sweetface2233 in

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  2. bible

  i haven't been to a meeting in going on 2 years and have moved since my last one.

  i don't know any jws in my city, never even seen one on the street, and have been looking for the nearest kh.

  i am going to check the schedule and see when their service meeting is.

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  Then I found out that they are just idol worshipping the WTS and GB

  Cultswatter, don't forget the Roving Busybody Circuit Overseer ...
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  I came to a realization just now, how about you?

  by return visitor in

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  i have been inactive now for over a half a year, and i am just now realizing that there was not one thing i enjoyed about being a witness.

  i enjoyed my friends and association with witnesses, and still do.

  but i didn't enjoy one thing that we were supposed to do, not one.

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  Frequent_Fader_Miles

  I think what I enjoyed most was when the meeting, conventions, assemblies, memorials, field service, return visits, bible studies, personal study, C.O. visits and sheperding calls were OVER!!
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  Hallelujah ... she's leaving the Borg!

  by Frequent_Fader_Miles in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  my online friend who was baptized at 12 years old has finally decided she couldn't make it as a jw anymore.

  with 2 dfs and major depression under her belt, no longer will she be living her life for the elders.

  until armageddon comes" since she's a goner anyway (serving jehovah with wrong motivation, not out of love).. her father recently died, .

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  When she's ready, I'll direct her to JWD.
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  Your most hated Kingdom Songs ever...

  by B_Deserter in

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  we all know that skilled songwriters the brothers are not, so what are your most hated kingdom songs?

  the ones that made you cringe when you saw them listed on the km or watchtower?

  mine?.

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  Frequent_Fader_Miles

  In reply to the "ignominious" in a song, the word means involving total loss of dignity... The word is not that common, especially among janitors and window washers like Jehovah's Witlesses are

  Exactly! That's why I would deliberately stop singing at that point in the song just to laugh at the unintelligible babble. You would think that when you come across a word alien to you, you'd look it up in the dictionary and check the pronounciation ... I guess the Witless Dictionary doesn't contain that word.