Posts by inlove

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It's my BIRTHDAY and I'll CRY if I want too!

by inlove in

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it really is my birthday and of course my jw husband can not celebrate this with me.

i thought i was ok with this, beacause this is my 3rd birthday with him and i have never felt this sad before.

but now that he trying to be reinstated i am so angry with him for not telling me what it would .

inlove

Thanks for all the kind words. It was not so bad, my husband did not go to his meeting at the Kingdom Hall (said he was tired) so at least I was not alone. Talk to you all later

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It's my BIRTHDAY and I'll CRY if I want too!

by inlove in

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it really is my birthday and of course my jw husband can not celebrate this with me.

i thought i was ok with this, beacause this is my 3rd birthday with him and i have never felt this sad before.

but now that he trying to be reinstated i am so angry with him for not telling me what it would .

Yes! It really is my birthday and of course my JW husband can not celebrate this with me. I thought I was OK with this, beacause this is my 3rd birthday with him and I have never felt this sad before.

But now that he trying to be reinstated I am so angry with him for not telling me what it would REALLY be like to be a witness. I really don't think I would have married him. This was so unfair of him to keep this from me. Now I am stuck, I don't want a divorce, BUT I can't be a witness and he seems so blind.

He was in the dark about the UN issue. Said "that if it was true he would really be upset" Well of course you all know it is true and I showed him documentation. But course he found a way to justify it.

So I am having a Blue Birthday, and I woun't go to the meeting with him tonight and I will bring home all my Birthday Cards from my real friends.

Thanks for letting me vent

Janet

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DUB

by inlove in

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inlove

Thanks to all of you. I know my husband is really DUB. I think of it as kind of a sickness. Does anyone have a DUB pill . What else can you do when it is so silly.

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DUB

by inlove in

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inlove

OK! I know I am new to the board and still learning about JW's but I feel silly not knowing what DUB means. Please anyone.

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I must really still be a newbie (What does DUH Stand for?)

by inlove in

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i know this may seem to simply to most of you, but it is really bugging me.. .

ps my hubby, who is pushing me to become a jw says he will read stuff i find out about the governing body.

well i told him i could prove that the tw and other jw publications had been prophecing the specfic date for the end of the word.

inlove

I know this may seem to simply to most of you, but it is really bugging me.

PS My hubby, who is pushing me to become a JW says he will read stuff I find out about the governing body. Well I told him I could prove that the TW and other JW publications had been prophecing the specfic date for the end of the word. Now he wants me to show him the publication, he won't believe anything I print off the internet. I think that will be pretty easy to prove.

Saying glad you all are here.

Inlove with a JW

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In love with a witnesss....

by city girl in

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hello, i'm new here...but i've been reading the forum for some time, but this is the first time i've posted.

i am stuck.

i am a non witness and have been seriously dating a witness for about a year now.

inlove

I am too am "inlove" with a JW, he was DA because we had prematial sex, but now he wants to go back. I did not know much about JW's and thought it would pretty much like any other religion, but with different beliefs and some non association with the world. So I encouraged him to go back, even supported him. Boy was I wrong. I started studying and looking things up on the internet and WOW were my eyes opened. I wish I had checked out the beliefs and org. long before we were married. He got DA becasue of me, and I think I could have shown him many things about JW's at that time. But now that we are married, he is free to seek reinstatment and does not feel like he needs to listen to me, because I have already married him. We are still trying to work things out. I know I can never ever be a JW on any level, but I fear for the well being of my husband. They are so hard on the men and we will not have our own marriage. It will be the Me, My Husband and The WatchTower.

My husband is the most amazing man, but when it comes to this he is brain washed. I don't want him hurt anymore by their lies.

Try freeminds.com for lots of info on the false teaching and wrong doing in governing body.

I found this article called "I'm in Love With a Jehovah's Witness!" by Timothy Campbell. It helped me.

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I HAVE TO KNOW WHAT DOES duh stand for?

by inlove in

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"as mentioned in last nights meeting, keep knocking, keep searching for it (the truth.. little-by-little, jehovah will reveal it to those with the right heart.

condition at the proper time.as mentioned in.

i have no need nor the desire tolook anywhere else for the truth or consider any other view points, be it letters from people that "claim" to be witnesses or from web sites and the.

inlove

Thanks for the words of encouragement. Really,

BUT I HAVE TO KNOW WHAT DOES duh mean?

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I HAVE TO KNOW WHAT DOES duh stand for?

by inlove in

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"as mentioned in last nights meeting, keep knocking, keep searching for it (the truth.. little-by-little, jehovah will reveal it to those with the right heart.

condition at the proper time.as mentioned in.

i have no need nor the desire tolook anywhere else for the truth or consider any other view points, be it letters from people that "claim" to be witnesses or from web sites and the.

inlove

I am sick, sad, angry and in despair! I thought I had married and reasonable man, now only to find him to say this

"as mentioned in last nights meeting, keep knocking, keep searching for it (the truth.
Little-by-little, Jehovah will reveal it to those with the right heart
condition at the proper time.as mentioned in
I have no need nor the desire tolook anywhere else for the truth or consider any other view points, be it letters from people that "claim" to be witnesses or from web sites and the
like."

Please tell me there is any hope! Is there anyone out there who has ever said these words before and meant them, that is now come to see the TRUTH?

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Why Jehovah's Witness do not want to see the flaws within the religion

by The wanderer in

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why jehovah's witness do not want to see the flaws within the religion a friend's thread inspired this topic of discussion because it was about.

a week or two weeks ago that this conversation came up during a re-.

cent telephone call.. the jehovah's witnesses perspective on the matter on a number of occasions, i recall getting into arguments with my.

inlove

What can I add to these comment, I feel like my comments are weak in comparision. All I know is that belief systems are routed deeply and shape a what a person thinks about themself. My husband loves God deeply, unfortunately he has put his faith in a false religion and I think he feels that God has let him down. In is him mind it is better to cling to false beliefs, than to admit he was wrong. Where do you go after being JW. It's like God has foresaken you!

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Breaking it to my grandparents

by AirDuster in

so i've been deciding for the past year or so whether or not i want to stay in this religion, and i have decided that i do not.

i plan on telling my grandparents (whom i live with) this very soon, possibly tomorrow.

of course i can't be just like "i don't want to be a jehovah's witness anymore", but rather "i don't believe in this anymore, and here are the reasons why".

inlove

Sorry, but I don't know how to use this site very well yet. But can anyone help with this, it was last Monday, I had just found this site and started reading many of the msg. I read one from parent who's son was planning on joins the Org. One reply had a website link that said it wound be good for learning the "Truth about the Truth" I think I was a video. Of course I did not write it down, now I can't find the msg, so can any help