For sure, random things happen to good people and bad. Hell, look at all the rich people who sank the economy last year. Were they rich so they could get richer?
I have a slightly different take on this phrase. I don't like the idea that we can be fatalistic and that whatever happens good or bad was meant to be.
But
Sometimes, you have to look for the reasons, for the meaning, when bad things happen. Am I saying to look for god or a lack of god in everything? No.
But if you lose a job, can you see how moving on can affect yourself and others positively? What about leaving JW's? I don't know why it took me so long, but the timing of it allowed me to meet certain people, get certain jobs. To move on. If I left earlier, or later, then it would be different.
I am a romantic, but not fatalistic. I think the underlying message when people say that is "Take this as an opportunity for some different direction in your life that could be positive."
Our time here is finite. Time is short, even shorter for some. To look for reasons behind our life and what happens is bad if you try to look for the why and that is what you spend your life doing. The past can instruct the future, and that is the best reason of all to look for what might be around the corner, instead of what is in the rear view mirror.