Posts by AllTimeJeff

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Hello Jehovah's Witnesses. I was in class 119 of Gilead in 2005

by AllTimeJeff in

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my picture is in the january 1, 2006 watchtower.. why am i telling you this?

consider this my small weekend contribution to the cause of real truth.

any jw who has been one for a while, or a born in, knows the regard that pioneers, elders, bethelites and missionaries have.

AllTimeJeff

00dad, it's in my life story. Gilead is where I allowed myself the freedom to admit that I didn't believe their bullshit.

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What Gilead Taught ME

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they mean the leadership.

all of this is code for: one who is not ready to really study and accept how the leadership of jehovah's witnesses use the bible to their own self serving means.

but to be fair, jw's teach that most all of these characters refer to the leadership of jehovah's witnesses, the governing body.

The info in this thread I think cuts to the heart of how the leadership of JWs operates. They look for a certain type, and they hoped I would be that type. Thankfully, I could think enough for myself. (Which is the ultimate JW antidote)

It's a very difficult thing to leave. Because you don't really know about the lie of it all till you climb their company ladder. They store all their rot in the penthouse. (If you follow my meaning)

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Are there any former missionaries here?

by Newborn in

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not sure i've ever read any experiences from former missionaries here (but i'm sure there has been) .

but it would be very interesting to know how you feel about it today.

everything you sacrificed.

AllTimeJeff

Part of it is JW tradition. That shouldn't be over thought.

The other part is that it legitimizes JWs in many parts of the world legally.

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Lets get real and heal, and give some space to those that are trying to do both

by AllTimeJeff in

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i didn't mean being real and trying to heal to rhyme, but essentially, that's why people come here.

and depending on where we are, we need space.

when you leave, one thing you will learn, quickly or otherwise, is what is reality.

AllTimeJeff

I didn't mean being real and trying to heal to rhyme, but essentially, that's why people come here. And depending on where we are, we need space.

When you leave, one thing you will learn, quickly or otherwise, is what is REALity. I feel safe in saying that no JW leaves and just joins polite society, ready made for success with no issues.

Jobs? Dating? Money? Education? (Uh, the god/religion/faith question?) Good luck at first. You are going to stub your toe a little bit at least.

But that's why, if you look at Internet boards like this where former JWs is concerned, that's why you see amazingly angry political and religious arguments. Is it because you already know reality? Or simply trying to work it out from the safety and anonymity of your computer screen?

Reality is a difficult thing to looks at and acknowledge. Some were JWs for very judgmental reasons, others because they thought they could help people, or a mix of the two. Regardless, it sucks to learn that JWs are wrong. It hurts even more to realize that the world really isn't much better. There are lots of people like you, and lots of people whom you hate, or disagree with. And guess what? They aren't going away

That's reality.

And getting into reality, means getting into healing.

Healing yourself is very much a process of getting to know yourself first, and growing yourself as a unique, well rounded person second.

My suggestion, based on a little bit of experience (and hopefully, some hard earned wisdom), is to realize that reality is very colored by where you come from. Be humble and willing to listen to other opinions. Realize that you need to heal as well. Does it take years? Yes it does. But that doesn't mean you have to put off living while you heal. If you have a broken leg, you go to the doctor, put a cast on, learn how to walk on crutches while realizing that for the inconvenience of the cast and crutches, you are also healing, and looking forward to the time when the cast comes off, you can rehab the muscles, and be as strong as ever. Of course, you still work, and you still live with the temporary handicap. But in time, it heals. You heal.

if arguing on these boards is part of the process of discovering who you are and what you stand for, and it helps you heal, then go for it. But don't just leave your life here. And don't STAY angry. Anger is useful in short spurts, if only to get you started. But like a car that only stays in first gear, anger will only get you so far before it burns you out and leave you stuck in the middle of the road.

Theres only one life you control, and that's yours. And there will never be another you. Don't rob the world of the great person you can be. Learn who you really are, and share your gifts with all around you. Trust me, it's worth the effort.

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Just saying hello

by AllTimeJeff in

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i'm still around.

i'm waiting to post till after the election because i don't want to waste my energy arguing politics, and i know i'm still not mature enough to ignore the bullshit.

hello to old friends.

AllTimeJeff

I'm still around. I'm waiting to post till after the election because I don't want to waste my energy arguing politics, and I know I'm still not mature enough to ignore the bullshit.

Hello to old friends.

See y'all soon. :)

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7 Things you'd like to bring to RECOMMEND to the others

by Terry in

7.. walter becker lyrics" hat too flat ".

hat too flat - walter becker - youtube?

hat too flat - walter becker.

AllTimeJeff

1. The latest South Park on Lance Armstrong/Jesus

2. Avoiding right wing bullshit

3. Joe Scarbrough and Anderson Cooper for fair journalism

4. Colbert rules. Still

5. "Outwitting the Devil "by Napolean Hill

6. Exercise 3 times a week

7. Never ever quitting.

In no particular order........

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SAD news about OOMPA......

by redredrose in

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our friend, oompa, has passed away.

just recieved the news a couple of hours ago, and have almost no details.

it happened today or yesterday, he took his own life.

AllTimeJeff

Life is worth so much more than words. In the grand scheme things, Oompa's legacy will be that, though he was in pain, he acted, and chose not to be a fraud. He left clues here and elsewhere. He was able to help his children, whom I hope will allow their father to live through them just a little.

Oompa reminded me in some ways of my brother, men who were vulnerable because they cared so much. Hurt by a cult they didn't choose to be born into. And ultimately, left us at a time of their own choosing.

R.I.P.

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Let's Discuss Ray Franz's Books

by Recovery in

i have been repeatedly pleaded with to read the books of ray franz in my short stay on this board.

apparently these are all the all-powerful, wt crushing arguments, that lead so many to leave jw's and become ruthless opposers of god's people.

we can discuss any claims/statements/scriptural arguments presented in either of his books, as long as it somehow proves jehovah's witnesses are not god's people.

AllTimeJeff

By now, I hope we are all used to the occasional troll who does a thread precisely like this to suck on negative energy. There are some JWs who do this. Expect more, not less.

Does anyone read the viewer comments on news articles on sites like CNN? There are tons of sad, vindictive, and hateful cowards who never leave their house, but can't wait to bask in the anonymity of their parents basement to spew crap precisely to look for someone who takes these idiots too seriously.

Count Recovery among that group. A coward with no life who posts garbage in his tighty wightys as bait to validate his pathetic existence.

Comment if you want, but don't be immature and argue with this guy. He's just here to upset you.

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Let's Discuss Ray Franz's Books

by Recovery in

i have been repeatedly pleaded with to read the books of ray franz in my short stay on this board.

apparently these are all the all-powerful, wt crushing arguments, that lead so many to leave jw's and become ruthless opposers of god's people.

we can discuss any claims/statements/scriptural arguments presented in either of his books, as long as it somehow proves jehovah's witnesses are not god's people.

AllTimeJeff

As an aside, most former JWs leave because of something other than that book. Whatever.....

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Let's Discuss Ray Franz's Books

by Recovery in

i have been repeatedly pleaded with to read the books of ray franz in my short stay on this board.

apparently these are all the all-powerful, wt crushing arguments, that lead so many to leave jw's and become ruthless opposers of god's people.

we can discuss any claims/statements/scriptural arguments presented in either of his books, as long as it somehow proves jehovah's witnesses are not god's people.

AllTimeJeff

C o C is an autobiography of a former GB member who was disfellowshipped because he disagreed with the GB. no need to debate. JWs have never tried to discount his account. They don't care, other than to demonize him by calling him an apostate.

I left JWs after attending Gilead because I learned that the teachings of JWs have changed all to frequently, That none of their "prophecies" have come true, and that they are just another cult.

I read C o C after I left. So I don't care to debate the book. Franz is right, for anyone who cares. But I'm not going to waste my time arguing.

Heres a trivia question: Where is the generation that saw 1914? Six feet under. It was a lie. As Franz demonstrates in C o C.