Go dancing,,ball room ,, plan something,,bowling,,movie out,, always on meeting nights,,short trips out of town, on the go always during meeting times. Sports, hikes. Volunteer for a worthwhile cause,,so many things to do.
Celebrate life!!
Posts by Gayle
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30Strange things happening...
by DS211 insome strange things are happening.. 1. wife started smoking.
2. wife agreed that the whole "clean up after armageddon while growing to perfection" thing is all speculation.. 3. as i was going to the meeting tonight (i had a part and kids are sick so she stayed in) she says "do you have to go?"..
4. when i got home she says " i wanna go out and party..... hmmmmmm.
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'Deal with it!' - WT, in so many words
by Gayle inhttp://www.jw.org/en/publications/magazines/wp20091101/spouse-special-needs/.
an article if a marriage partner has a chronic health issue.
no - did not mention something like - 'just read the bible & you'll feel better.
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Gayle
http://www.jw.org/en/publications/magazines/wp20091101/spouse-special-needs/
an article if a marriage partner has a chronic health issue
no - did not mention something like - 'just read the Bible & you'll feel better.' instead picture shows to do a puzzle together.
no - did not mention go in field service to somehow feel better-
no- did not mention to talk to elders about it. (Proven fact; elders don't help with such things. kind of too bad, so sad attitude)
no- no promise of the new world coming so soon.
Eventually, they may even render themselves unable to continue providing care for their beloved mate. No mention on how one's would process that one. Certainly, nothing within organization for any such services. And the 'cost?' when most JWs already are just eke-ing by.
Basically. ones are on their own. Sad thing and reality, as many to most JWs are aging and getting health problems. The WT message is ending up very empty and nothing to offer and very unpromising.
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Interview with an "Apostate": Losingit
by losingit ini was always in the top of my class in school and participated in many afterschool activities.
it was the best experience of my life.
i was 19 at the time.
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Gayle
So loved reading your story. I love reading books by former JWs. Having a site with countless "Interviews" of former JWs is priceless. Hearing/reading these accounts, shows such learned/experienced found strengths of each interviewee. Not feeling alone in this process makes such a difference.
Some day I hope there is a free e-book like "I am an ex-Jehovah's Witness (but not alone)" with a collection of personal experiences. Each account is a book in itself, but requiring less time but much encouragement for the many in this process.
I am a grandma now and becoming a mom pushed me many times through the process of leaving the cultism. I am thrilled none of my 5 children became JWs and they are thankful too. Your children will be forever grateful having a mom like you, willing to grow and encouraging them to grow in so many positive ways and giving them the opportunity of free minds and hearts.
Best wishes to you!
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Inspirational (2 minute) ex-Mormon video (series)
by Fernando inhttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d3lvkgn_hta.
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Gayle
Thx, Fernando!! May be some day, there will be such an "ex-Jehovah's Witness" site. Obviously, the ex-Mormons have a very good 'pro-active' group!
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The Governing Body Have Stabbed Many Old Bethelites In The Back By Not Taking Care Of Them In Their Old Age
by frankiespeakin inthese guys are real company men when they have mass lay off of older bethelites tossing them to the curb and making the congregation they are assigned to carry some of the load, so that the watchtower corporation can cut costs of providing for these nolonger young people who have devoted theirs lives to the corporation.. they are heartless bastards aren't they?
i wonder what kind of undercurrent this is causing at headquartes?.
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Gayle
The WTS is a "beast," You must scratch its back fervently, constantly. If you slow down, it turns on you.
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Here we go again..... visitors from London bethel staying with my parents
by not bitter inthey are arriving this evening at around 9:30 so when i went to pick up my daughter from my parents house after work i was ushered out sharpish as my mum is still cleaning the house and preparing.
ironing bedding, re-hanging curtains after getting them dry cleaned etc.
nuts!.
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Gayle
Have a wonderful weekend with your daughter. I don't know if you do Christmas yet? Doing a "Winter Wonderland" holiday is a great stepping stone.
Show your daughter what fun she can have, celebrating life, at least seasons. Show her the positives of this life. She will see that her parent's life has more joy for her. Her grand-parents life will not compare.
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Flips and Flops: Higher Education
by Iamallcool ini would like to show my friend that the watchtower change their mind all the time about higher education over the years.
they usually discourage higher education as we all know that.
i would like to show him the wt quotes.
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Gayle
http://www.jwfacts.com/watchtower/quotes/education.php
against and acceptable flip-flop
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The Governing Body Have Stabbed Many Old Bethelites In The Back By Not Taking Care Of Them In Their Old Age
by frankiespeakin inthese guys are real company men when they have mass lay off of older bethelites tossing them to the curb and making the congregation they are assigned to carry some of the load, so that the watchtower corporation can cut costs of providing for these nolonger young people who have devoted theirs lives to the corporation.. they are heartless bastards aren't they?
i wonder what kind of undercurrent this is causing at headquartes?.
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Gayle
Unfortunately, everyone knows, that you shouldn't give money to anyone with an addiction. They will use the money to support their addiction. (Those who have a cultism addiction, will only see any money as a blessing from their god/cult). Unless, an individual goes through a hard time, faces their miserable life, can they realize they have to change their life. Are they at a point of no return? How do cultists not come to some personal reality as the many decades pass? They had to be 'ignoring' a lot of 'stuff.'
When they are offered the facts/truth (medicine) about the organization, they reject and they'll hurt you. We can't help them much, when they reject offers.
Fortunately, some are seeing their miserable, empty life. Until, they face that, there isn't much you can do. As we as parents, show our children the misery of addictions, get the info out, to inform 'before,' to learn prevention in the first place. Fortunately. more are learning about the WTS, their "using" ways toward their people.
Many former JWs are very active providing an "inocculation" prevention from JWism.
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Question
by Fading Begins ini am sure that this has already been discussed, so maybe someone could direct me to the correct link.
i just haven't been able to access this site as often as i would like.
at the meeting tonight (i wasn't there but was told about it), the brothers were told to pack up a "survival kit" with enough provisions to last for six months - water, medications etc.
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Gayle
"new light" : after Armageddon survival knowledge....(or for after disaster - whichever comes first) "Survival" meetings to start or take place of Cong. Book Study asap! (Also, remember to pack your new ipads, so as to keep up with GB "new light," after big A or disaster)
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/12/03/open-can-without-can-opener-video_n_4372906.html
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by Fading Begins ini am sure that this has already been discussed, so maybe someone could direct me to the correct link.
i just haven't been able to access this site as often as i would like.
at the meeting tonight (i wasn't there but was told about it), the brothers were told to pack up a "survival kit" with enough provisions to last for six months - water, medications etc.
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Gayle
They were given a list of items to put in this "kit"
Was this list on WT letterhead?? Can you get a copy?