Hi MariAruet
This is something that I have given some thought to over the years..............................does being raised a JW put the idea of perfection in your mind more than others.............we are taught from an early age that we are striving for 'a perfect life on a perfect paradise like earth'........perfection is pushed into your consciousness all the time............man lost perfection, we can return to perfection, the earth will be perfect..............to much perfection me thinks.
Now does that step over into non witness life once we are out.....................I think it is totally individual.........but it is probably a 'concept' we are more likely to apply to ourselves than expect from others.
As far as this forum goes...............I think you have a mixed bag.............dont mistake healthy debate for people expecting perfection from others..............and also there is banter between folk who are familiar with one another...........and then there are probably the rare few who are more arrogant and dismissive of others and their opinions, but I take that more as insecurity (a need to be right) and lack of fellow feeling on their part.
Fifi