....thats the dog house for me then.....oops sorry Mouthy.......I dont know what came over me
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Sad News Ninja was arrested last night......
by fifi40 inok i am only joking........ http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=4ilndvryppq.
hee hee ........ lurve you ninja.
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Sad News Ninja was arrested last night......
by fifi40 inok i am only joking........ http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=4ilndvryppq.
hee hee ........ lurve you ninja.
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Well I know i have a naughty sense of humour..........I just love this clip and the weird things is the more I watch it the more I convince myself it is Ninja..........
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Sad News Ninja was arrested last night......
by fifi40 inok i am only joking........ http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=4ilndvryppq.
hee hee ........ lurve you ninja.
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Have you changed your mind about ABORTION?
by nicolaou ini'm not after a discussion on the rights or wrongs on abortion, what i'm asking is whether or not your views have evolved over time.. perhaps leaving the watchtower was enough to allow your true feelings on abortion to find expression.
maybe abortion is one of those subjects where you still find yourself in agreement with your old jw self.
did becoming a mother change your perspective in any way or solidify your views?.
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I'll come back to it later JO
But in short you used the argument of third world countries to counter Restrangled'spost and I just wondered at your committment to third world countries...............but your right third wold countries are not part of this argument.
Also you earlier said having an abortion is murder........I wondered if you had your own daughter and she was given a choice her life or her babies which you would choose...........you see for some that is the choice, and it is not a pleasant choice to have to make.......albeit one of legalised murder in your opinion.
There are many sides to this argument, many personal circumcstances........and my experiences have taught me not to be quick to judge or label others.
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Have you changed your mind about ABORTION?
by nicolaou ini'm not after a discussion on the rights or wrongs on abortion, what i'm asking is whether or not your views have evolved over time.. perhaps leaving the watchtower was enough to allow your true feelings on abortion to find expression.
maybe abortion is one of those subjects where you still find yourself in agreement with your old jw self.
did becoming a mother change your perspective in any way or solidify your views?.
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Journey On do you buy fair trade?
Also do you have kids of your own?
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I'm not racist but.....
by Burger Time insavemysoul made a good point that i have heard often.
semi/full blow racist remarks are usually started off with "i'm not racist but..." then add some blanket statement afterwards.
so is racism now the new gay?
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Onthewayout
You dont think I was being serious do you????
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I'm not racist but.....
by Burger Time insavemysoul made a good point that i have heard often.
semi/full blow racist remarks are usually started off with "i'm not racist but..." then add some blanket statement afterwards.
so is racism now the new gay?
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There are only two things I hate in this world..........racism and the dutch............ .......... hee hee.....
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Why I dont go along with the "happiness" crowd
by Junction-Guy inthe old saying "happiness is the best revenge", to me that is the most rubbing statement i can ever hear right now.. .
someone mentioned that jw's dont think anyone can have true happiness outside of their religion, i dont necessarily buy this.. .
when someone is happy inside the borg, they say its jehovah's blessing, when someone is happy outside the borg they say that satan is blessing them.
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JG
I am going to call you out on this........I once responded to a thread of yours with a very honest and heartfelt reply.....and you response was nothing....zilch....nada
http://www.jehovahs-witnesss.com/6/130428/2314479/post.ashx
afterward I felt a bit like........okay did I come over a bit strong, a bit poor old me.......but I got over it........I was trying to say in that post yeah ok my experience is nopt exactly the same as yours but it hurt and so I can empathise with you.......and your response was nothing.
It seems like you are wandering the board looking to pick at fight at the moment........why?????
We have had all had crap thrown at us........you just posted about the American Bar wish on John Does thread.....what gives?
I could say try having your 2 day old son die in your arms that might give you some empathy........try having your JW father pin you up against the door and say he is going to shoot the both of you.......that might give you some empathy
If we have been hurt it probably wont be the first time or the last.......you make your decisions based on your life experience.......dont bother with people who are crap towards you.........but there are millions more folk out there.
Try and take a chill pill bro and think about the friendly and good advice that is being given you by so many people who do care......
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Why I dont go along with the "happiness" crowd
by Junction-Guy inthe old saying "happiness is the best revenge", to me that is the most rubbing statement i can ever hear right now.. .
someone mentioned that jw's dont think anyone can have true happiness outside of their religion, i dont necessarily buy this.. .
when someone is happy inside the borg, they say its jehovah's blessing, when someone is happy outside the borg they say that satan is blessing them.
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I dont understand why you cant have some of both.............
Some times of happiness and some time you use to expose the JW org for what it is and the effect it has on people and kids.....
If you dont ever feel happy and you think this is largely connected to your upbringing surely it would help to get some form of counselling to help you deal with this......
Many of us have suffered at the hands of our parents, the false teachings of that religion and horrible experiences we have had to deal with throughout our lives........it is up to us how we respond to this as individuals.....
If you dwell on something it becomes bigger, it becomes the main focus of our life.....it becomes us and how you feel....what I mean by this JG is that for example.......you have suffered as a youngster because of the JWs......if you think oh my life has been crap and it is all because of the JWs and I am going to make sure everyone knows how crap being raised as a JW makes you feel and how damaging it is to you.....then you are always going to feel crap.......if however you can alter your view just slightly and think.....this is what happened to me as a kid in part due to the JW teachings.....I am now an adult and I think for myself........I am going to show people that you can have a successful and sometimes happy life away from that religion and I am also going to use my experiences to help those who may be going through similar experiences to mine or to prevent people from getting involved with this religion in the first place.......it is more beneficial and healthier to both yourself and those you are involved with.....
This may sound harsh but ultimately people get fed up with victims.......we need to face our own demons and take action.......and I dont mean popping pills or drinking ourselves silly........there is so much help available.......and all it can take is sometimes a tiny shift in perspective.
When your brain has been trained to think one way over many years it can be very hard to get it to think another way.......but there are people that can help you do that......it is up to you.....
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Okay whose hiding Terry......
by fifi40 inwhere is he........... the board seems kind of quiet without him....... somebody needs to check up on him........ .
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Ok Warlock
As long as he is ok.....
Can you just let him know........ vee miss im.......
Come back soon Terry.....we have not finished with you yet