Hi All, I thought I would check back to see if we had a few more comments after I signed off yesterday. I must say, I did expect a few harsh words but it seems I got more than my fare share. I should have let you all know I was not telling the whole story. It is too personal and I become overly emotional.
First of all, THANK YOU Burger time for sticking up for me. I did not say I would shun my grandchildren. I would never shun anyone, especially my own grandchildren. What I ment was that as for babysitting at no charge so my DIL can have some free time, I am considering quiting. I have not done this yet, just thinking. They would always be welcome to visit as a family. Our Casa is Their Casa.
A couple comments on Rebellion. What do 5+7 yr olds have to rebel against? Rebellion is only OK when person is a victim of unjust treatment. These children and their parents are treated farely and with abundant love.
Also I will defend myself by telling you that I am not making a big deal out of a haircut just for the sake of drama. The issue is respect not for just me but authority in general. It seems rebellion just for the fact of rebellion has become the fashion. Personally I see parenting as a serious responsibility that holds lives at stake. I do not interfer or lecture my children over their parenting styles. And I do not need to have my way or the highway.
What I am struggling with is, how much does a grandparent or a parent take before they push back?