Flower (and SYN): Yeesh! o_O;;
um lets see how can i put this nicely. i dont know you personally enough to say what kind of guy you are but i checked out the link you gave me and boy what a major turn off that was. i was thinking before 'hey he sounds like a nice guy' and then after seeing that i was like 'man can you believe the arrogance of this jerk'. i'm just telling you how 'I' felt as a woman reading that.I, er, see. :-) Well, I don't know what in the world could possibly be arrogant about what you saw. I'm far from arrogant -- really. I mean, all I did was explain what I like. And I'm HARDLY a jerk! I respect your viewpoint and opinion, though; but I'm not nuts that you posted this veritable tirade publicly -- totally not cool.
maybe its just me, but the whole personal advertisement thing really turns me off towards people. to me, a relationship is something that should develop naturally and not something that should be like a job interview or something. i mean geez.It's just you. Just kidding! I'm not a big fan of the "advertisement" approach either, but I'm also not willing to enter into any kind of relationship (friendship or more) without knowing that there are some fundamental similarities at play. I don't have time to waste on a relationship whose basic intrastructure is flawed. Thus, I have that profile there as something of an introduction page. If someone's turned off by it, oh well -- obviously she's not for me.
Obviously, something raised your bristles (though I honestly can't imagine what). The whole thing is a "this is what I like to do, these are my favorite types of music, I like The Simpsons" sort of things. I think your reaction, while valid, was overkill. There's absolutely nothing so vile there. If you disagree, e-mail me for I'd like to hear what specifically was so evil. (O_o)
but anyway good luck in your search for mrs. perfect.Er, thanks. ^_^ Same t' you. Flower power!