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  Man oh man, Americans; We should have listened to this guy!

  by SixofNine in

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  click: prescient warning on iraq, given in 1994

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  RAF

  OY !!! ... (interesting)
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  I'm in love and ... scared !!!

  by RAF in

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  sorry need to share and to talk about it and maybe in giving me your opinion, talking about your experience, i'll find other ways to deal with it.. .

  i just turned 40 (does this have something to do with it) never been scared about the matter ... but now i wonder what kind of love i've really experienced before (any kind of appeals like complicity for instance, the need to share something in particular with someone, the need to give someone some love?

  ) i dunno for real .... i'm trying to get this out of my head but i can't, i can't, i can't - i'm trying to get interested in other guys but it's just not the same ... and i even wonder how i came to the conclusion that i do love him !!!.

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  RAF

  ... ninja

  To be honest by now (and if this goes farther) I don't think I am ready to live with someone I have such involvement with full time ... I'm more for "you stay in your home and I stay in mine" (and maybe even with a kid it could stay this way, I guess it would more depends on the kids needs and his for me to really want to get into this).
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  I'm in love and ... scared !!!

  by RAF in

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  sorry need to share and to talk about it and maybe in giving me your opinion, talking about your experience, i'll find other ways to deal with it.. .

  i just turned 40 (does this have something to do with it) never been scared about the matter ... but now i wonder what kind of love i've really experienced before (any kind of appeals like complicity for instance, the need to share something in particular with someone, the need to give someone some love?

  ) i dunno for real .... i'm trying to get this out of my head but i can't, i can't, i can't - i'm trying to get interested in other guys but it's just not the same ... and i even wonder how i came to the conclusion that i do love him !!!.

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  RAF

  I sure fell that you are romantic and very sensitive in heart Codeblue ... and in fact I'm very romantic too, I mean this is not the first time, I feel good and even in love with someone, but it's the first time I feel very different (maybe because the specific feeling that I have is new).

  About myself (being revealed - it will happen) and it is an issue to take into consideration here ... even if I don't think I need to be the most interesting person in the world at all, since I just feel good being myself ... Of course I'm far from being perfect (more over about what a man could expect from a wife), I'm trying to not regress though about what seems really important to me, but this only depends on my personnal values which can change.

  If you meet me in real life for only lets say once to 3 times for a few hours you'll only see a quiet or (depending on the context) a kind of childish woman (and somehow I'm really still 12 in many matters in my ways).

  So now even if we saw each other way more than 3 times + the phone call (I don't think it's equal as to sharing enough time to have an idea of who I am) I mean he sure doesn't know yet who he is dealing with (as well as I don't know about him) and if he only saw the childish woman in me, that could explain a lot of things.

  To be more explicite (in being professionnaly an accountancy expert - that's why we've met) he runs his own every saturday Party club - located on a boat (the one my sister and I are going most often on saturdays since he invited me and that it's close, that we really do appreciate the music and ambiance there).

  But what do I do there ? ...Just having fun ... So what he sees the most is probably the childish woman in me. And the funny part of this, is me being sensitive to his ways related to the feeling that it gives me, it's getting me confused to the point I'm probably reacting in a childish way with him (being confused to the point to not find my words on the phone for instance, really, that's not me - What else have I done exactly which looks like that? I don't know).

  So ... Maybe he sees a woman that he might be able to mold his way (not really my type - and this is not the kind of man I want) ... if it's related to that dissapointement is on the way ... but at the same time him being able to make me feel good to the point I've considered huge involvements (like marriage and a kid) talks about his potential on being able to get way more than I thought I could give ... but we are not there yet (really NOT).

  That said he also have some childish ways and it's cute as hell !!! I can also see and feel a lot of defaults in him but that doesn't bother me at all ... it just looks like part of him ...
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  I'm in love and ... scared !!!

  by RAF in

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  sorry need to share and to talk about it and maybe in giving me your opinion, talking about your experience, i'll find other ways to deal with it.. .

  i just turned 40 (does this have something to do with it) never been scared about the matter ... but now i wonder what kind of love i've really experienced before (any kind of appeals like complicity for instance, the need to share something in particular with someone, the need to give someone some love?

  ) i dunno for real .... i'm trying to get this out of my head but i can't, i can't, i can't - i'm trying to get interested in other guys but it's just not the same ... and i even wonder how i came to the conclusion that i do love him !!!.

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  RAF

  Thank you (((Codeblue)))

  I agree with that ... I know being scared won't help
  I have to get prepared cause I'm leaving with my sister in a hour or so ... will take my time to answer ... cause you brought an interesting question here ...

  Love ya

  will get in touch with you maybe before ... (If I'm not sleepy when I'll be back tomorrow morning and if you are online)
  have nice evening !!!

  Thanks a lot to those who PM'd me too : Smootches !!!
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  Shattering the Sacred Myths

  by nvrgnbk in

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  enjoy!.

  evolutionary metaphysics means to contemplate the existence of the universe in light of the theory of evolution.

  natural evolution depends on random mutation, and some people believe this proves that consciousness has no higher purpose.

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  RAF

  Wow Tetra : Now that was very well balanced !!!
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  I'm in love and ... scared !!!

  by RAF in

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  sorry need to share and to talk about it and maybe in giving me your opinion, talking about your experience, i'll find other ways to deal with it.. .

  i just turned 40 (does this have something to do with it) never been scared about the matter ... but now i wonder what kind of love i've really experienced before (any kind of appeals like complicity for instance, the need to share something in particular with someone, the need to give someone some love?

  ) i dunno for real .... i'm trying to get this out of my head but i can't, i can't, i can't - i'm trying to get interested in other guys but it's just not the same ... and i even wonder how i came to the conclusion that i do love him !!!.

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  RAF

  Changeling :

  by all means explore this situation!

  Believe me I will ...

  He called me yesterday night (he have my phone number since we exchanged our business cards the 10th may - so it took time for him to call) - to tell me he was going on holliday and be back the 25th - he was asking lots of questions too - couldn't find my words I fell like a kid - to the point I fell the need to cut this conversation short saying "have fun, see you the 25th" ... LOL ... I guess I'm messing up here but that's all I could do - so no regrets anyway) ...

  About Terry (yeah ... that was truly spiritual)
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  Adam & Eve question...

  by tan in

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  my young daughter asked this question regarding adam & eve:.

  if they were perfect, why did they need to eat from the tree of good and bad anyway?.

  we eat to nourish our bodies, we eat to replenish, we eat for energy....they were perfect and would not need those things.. from the mouth of babes.... what's your thoughts....

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  RAF

  Coaster !!!
  
  Awakened07 : free will? Free!?

  Well when do people take responsability if it's all free?
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  On Faith

  by BFD in

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  this is something that my sister sent me out of the blue.... on faith faith is a state of openness or trust.

  to have faith is to trust yourself to the water.

  when you swim you don't grab hold of the water, because if you do you will sink and drown.

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  RAF

  Yeah ... I like it too !!!
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  What is the supposed biblical basis for the non-acceptance of blood

  by Lotus65 in

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  i want to know what the supposed biblical basis for the non transfusion of blood is with the jw's so that i can use it at the convention when im with my family

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  RAF

  What is the supposed biblical basis for the non-acceptance of blood

  Well not aknoledged

  • the reason why Jesus sacrifies himself (denying his sacrifice - as if Christians people blood needs to return to God which is quiet material and only applyied to the Jews before Christ)
  • the reason why (contextually) in Actes you find a statement which is just to make sure that Christians won't chock the Jews

  I mean there total ignorance of the matter of blood biblically, contextually and spiritualy
  
  (sorry needed to put it an other way)
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  Is this letter rude? My wife thought so....

  by CaptainSchmideo in

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  please find enclosed my check for $109.50.

  while i am paying this bill, i believe that this charge is incredibly excessive.

  $93.50 of this bill is for a uroflowmetry, complex test.

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  RAF

  ... (did it more than once - don't care if it have been aknowlegded or what - but it just feels good) ... your's is more funy though !