Some do find their way out. Many of these become agnostics or atheists, hating God and all attempts to understand and reach Him.
Dr. Bergman has yet to wrap his mind around the concept of simple disbelief. Atheists don't hate god, nor do we hate attempts to understand the phenomena. It's quite impossible to hate that which does not exist.
It is quite normal to notice the dysfunction of religion, to recognize where religion is going wrong and to publicize these faults.
If Religious leaders could keep their hands from getting sticky from greed, sex, power, lust, politics, no atheist would give a fig what they do.
Until that day, atheists will continue to point out the foibles of religious leaders, their doctrines and practices.
YaYa