never anything practical, invite them over for a meal.....4 years in one cong no invites in sight, rides in service had to beg because one of the elders with the big car filled it with young sisters, he disclosed he was a leg man while drinking,do you need financial help has never been asked me in the 40 years I was in the truth. do you need help getting around never anything practical all about service and meeting attendance like we have other needs!!!
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July 26th Watchtower. Twisted learning
by Lemonp inthe wt study this week made me feel sick!
it is one of the most blatantly un-scriptural articles i have ever seen!
in these paragraphs we see how we should treat our neighbor ... so, what examples do we have of loving our neighbors?
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JW Hatred and Elders Apathetic Manners Drove Me Here! Why are JWs fooled in to thinking the WTS Cares?
by Judas Maccabee infor years i've been screwed with by some very bad people, people satan would kick out of his organization because even the devil might let up on evil just to allow someone to catch their breath.
with the jwism's bad people move up while good people move down or leave the kingdom hall for good.
i was talking with two elders who said "you know if you return to the kingdom hall, jehovah will bless you and these people will stop screwing with you.
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Your life your marriage is identical to my own I am fading wife is full time pioneer she micro manages my life and I lead a double life on sites like this... for years I was told by the elders that the problem was mine, not enough service, prayer sacrifice blah blah, so fade quietly and when the time is right disappear, if only I had known years ago so many of us have serious doubts about the ORG!!! -
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How Far Apart Were Your Legs?
by Joe Grundy inseveral threads on here about the excellent bbc r4 programme this week ('the report') focussing on rape and abuse in barry, south wales, jws.
fat pervert mark sewell later got 14 years and i hope he is enjoying every minute of it.. the courageous ladies who spoke on the programme were articulate, reasonable and made a tremendous impression.. the quote in the thread title made an impression on me, and i hope, on all listeners.. forget religious, theological, 'biblical' issues and cut to the basics.
a rape victim was asked to demonstrate - to demonstrate, ffs - to three unqualified (middle-aged at least, presumably) men just how far her legs were apart when she was raped.. i have rarely heard anything so outrageous, and i used to investigate rape and abuse in my profession.
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God forgive me I served on judicial committees, and ,while I never asked intimate questions, I got a sense right from the outset if the person was sorry , or if they were trying to get off lightly. Sadly I served with some elders who sickened me by their questions. Did he touch your vagina on the outside or inside your panties, which finger did he penetrate you with. Did you perform oral sex, were you watching porn, I finally refused to serve on JC citing mental health issues, too many elders seemed to enjoy the questioning too much. -
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Daughter of Elder Reinstated Within Months!
by disillusioned 2 ina young sister in my husband's congregation who is the daughter of an elder has been reinstated in a matter of months.
whereas another sister in the same congregation has been disfellowshipped now for nearly two years!.
seems like it's who you know..
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same story the world over, lived in north America for decades elders families slapped on the wrist for D/F offences, the poor and downtrodden families no money min wage job treated like dirt when they sinned. Now I live in Europe same thing here mass hypocrisy that the GB refuse to acknowledge. -
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Wolves in sheep clothing
by Israel Ricky Gonzales ini was baptized then i was 15 years old and just entering high school.
i had been a perfect jw teenager through out my high school years, although i craved to be a little bit worldly.
when i graduated high school, i moved out and got a job working with my older non-jw brother.
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I have been before a JC for drunkenness. I was treated so poorly, even though no one knew of my sin, I told the elders the whole truth. All I can say is next time if ever that happens I will disassociate, the hypocrites say D F is a loving provision, I say its a god dishonouring process. I felt during the whole process that my life was in the balance. A sad day for Brotherly love. -
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Abusing the power of tears. Yet another sign of desperation
by StarTrekAngel inso i was seating at the meeting this past sunday.
the latest wt article to be studied speaks of "using our imagination" to think about the blessings of the kingdom.
the whole study was centered around how we can, and should, spent time visualizing ourselves in the new world, working along with our brothers.
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The GB say "picture the resurrection of your loved ones" yet from the other side of their mouth, they translate jesus words on resurrection and marriage as no reunion for those who died before the GT death ends the marriage vow, hypocrite's -
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Did you know WTBTS applied for Holocaust compensation?
by umbertoecho indid you know that the wtbts applied for these compensation funds?
i had no idea and if this has already been addressed then so be it.
i find it interesting due to the fact that so much is made of the jws being in camps during ww2 and nothing else is expressed about the other millions who died in these camps.
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It figures rank and file kept in the dark they would be quick to do a WT article if they felt they would gain by it but again "do not question gods chosen on earth or be disfellowshipped" -
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IMITATE JESUS RC - BRIGHTON, WEST SUSSEX (UK)
by Nicholaus Kopernicus infollow jesus, but not "at a distance" (luke 22:54).
speaker opened with matt 26:57-58 stressing "fear of man" which led peter to follow at a distance after jesus was arrested.
the speaker compared this with peter's earlier stated confidence in verses 33 & 35. speaker then moved on to 1 peter 2:21 as evidence that it is jesus' example which is to be followed.
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Agreed. I cannot understand why the GB interpret the bible this way. They maintain Judas Iscarriot would never get resurrected. Who are they to judge. We do not know what passed between God and Judas or what was said, or if he was forgiven, Judas full of remorse took his life, he felt deep regret or guilt, who are we to say what he may have pleaded for in his final hours, typical GB they claim to know, what arrogance. -
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Who oversees the money for the WT?
by John Aquila inwhen the wt sells property for a billion dollars profit, who decides what that money is going to be used for?.
when all the money comes in from all the kingdom halls bank accounts worldwide, did all that money go into one big account and who has authority to spend it and cut some checks to whoever?
when all the monthly donations come in to the watchtower headquarters, who decides distribution, and to who?
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Trust in jehovahs earthly servants, do not question where the money goes for you will be told voice dissent and you will be disfellowshipped. -
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Can someone explain to me ......
by notoneoftheboys ini was never told before i got baptised that i would loose my family if i got disfellowshipped.. no one told me i would get disfellowshipped if i had a blood transfusion.
no one told me that the gb was all powerful and tolerate no dissention.
that if i spoke to a d/f person i would get disfellowshipped.. no one told me in my marriage bed there were rules if broken d/f shipping resulted.. i was told my brothers would die or care for me.
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I was never told before I got baptised that I would loose my family if I got disfellowshipped.
no one told me I would get disfellowshipped if I had a blood transfusion
no one told me that the GB was all powerful and tolerate no dissention
That if I spoke to a D/F person I would get disfellowshipped.
No one told me in my marriage bed there were rules if broken D/F shipping resulted.
I was told my brothers would die or care for me
I was never told that I would be taken to the back room and severely reprimanded for minor sins.
no one said the Elders could do as we say not as we do
in the early 80s we had lots of tv evangelists, GB were very critical of using tv to solicit funds. Now we have god knows how many millions spent on JW broadcasting and who else asking for money but the GB.
why was I never told once I got baptised that I could not argue or question the direction from the GB or be disfellowshipped, yet during the bible study of the truth book I could say what I liked.
I was never told my wife and I would be interrogated into aspects of our love life where did that come from??
Why is it then when I bring these absoloute truths forward I am told Jehovah speaks thru the GB as he did with Moses.
And lastly why was I so blind I did not see????