CoCo,
Funny you should bring this up. I've actually been thinking about it over the last several months.
Specifically, the unconditional love of my non-Dub family and non-Dub family friends. Aunts, uncles, grandparents, family friends always gave me birthday presents and Christmas presents.
And, because I was a Dub I never reciprocated. No mother's day cards for my grandmother. No Christmas cards or birthday cards and good wishes for aunts and uncles and cousins. No father's day cards, birthday cards, or Christmas cards for my non-Dub Dad. Yet they never took offense and continued to treat me the same way.
This is one of the biggest regrets of my life, because all of them are gone now (except cousins). I so wish I could turn back the clock and do it all over.
The lesson in this is that, in spite of the contrary claims of the BORG, there is a lot of love in this world and it is true, unconditional love.
Now I waste no time in expressing my appreciation to people because you just never do know if it will be "too late."
Thanks for the post,
Alex